the reason why I like cuckqueaning is because I get really turn on watching my husband have sex with other very attractive women and I also get really turn being humiliated by him and his cuckcake for not being attractive enough for him and for not being able to statisfy him like his cuckcake does and the sex that me and my husband after is so amazing.
I have been a cuckquean for my husband for 2 years now and the rules that me and him have is that I’m the one who gets to pick his cuckcake for him because I like to be the one who is in control of everything.
I really wish cuckqueaning was more social acceptable because I have lost a few of my friends for tell them that im into cuckqueaning
Is it less excepted as cockolding? There’s not many that understand or except either. If it’s kinky or not the norm by their eyes you are judged and at least publicly admonish.
Those so called friends are the ones that loose out on a valued friend in you and some raunchy stories with a glass of wine.
As long as you are happy more power to you and keep up the kinky lifestyle
Never heard of this before but it kinda intrigues me to know more about its workings as from sounds of it, it goes against so much of what society teaches us!
It’s an arrangement that I suspect quite a few open couples have.
It seems less common than typical cuck setups (a man who shares and likes to watch his woman with others) but I think it may just be that it isn’t as talked about. I hate that it’s more taboo, to me it’s just normal.
I prefer to be present so yes, I meet the cakes (if you like that term) and I often am the one who will chat to them first before they then get chatting to my husband. We then tend to chat in a group for a while before meeting. These chats help to set boundaries and explain everyone’s preferences.
As for input during the meet, I sometimes will share a kiss or a quick chat otherwise, I tend to sit somewhere comfy and let them have their fun. Now and then depending on preferences I might join in with some parts just to increase the fun for him and her.
I / we don’t tend to share much information with friends and we don’t share any information with family at all.
We are happily married, very secure and what we choose to do alongside that is our business.
Most interesting, thank you for delving into this more for me
Wish things like this was more talked about or even have a dictionary with all the different types of sexual explorations there is
Glad I could help answer some of your questions. Every couple is different however and have their own boundaries and takes on this lifestyle. Some incorporate humiliation and others might not for example .
I know it took some time for you to find your feet, and you’ve been mostly absent from the forum lately (sadly for us!!!).
How has cuckqueaning changed your life? What has the impact been on your relationship? On your sexual relationship?
How do you get off on it? Has the sex between the 2 of you only taken a step back or is it better still as a result?
Sorry, many questions, some extremely personal. Dont feel like you have to answer them - I’m asking because you’ve been so eloquently candid here on your sex journey with husband in the past - you’ve been relatable, open in your mistakes, successes on your path to a kinkier way of life.
I hope you are well anyway. Sounds like you are - it would be interesting to hear about your thought process on your more recent journey.
I spent and shared a lot of my life online but due to personal circumstances felt it safer for me to step back. I can’t elaborate other than to say this included my use of online forums.
I wish I could speak about what’s happened and explain reasons for my lack of posts over the past few years but again, it’s safer that I don’t. It’s frustrating at times but it’s just how it is.
I am starting to gain my confidence back but it’s baby steps… I was once very candid but have had to alter this and sadly I suspect this may be a permanent way of life due to personal circumstances.
However , I can share that our sex life is amazing as it always was, only we are now more adventurous and have a much deeper connection for it. I feel what we share and do together makes us even stronger.
My pleasure is gained via my husbands pleasure. I came to realise this following a shared experience with another female. Three was perhaps not the magic number after all as we discovered “it takes two”.
My husband is still finding his feet with the lifestyle as he worries about my feelings and can get nervous from time to time. He feels it’s unfair as we are only open in one direction (with him being a “hot husband”) but that’s exactly how we both wish it to be.
Most importantly, despite it being a one direction arrangement, we are exploring together and will always put each other first.
We did switch back to vanilla for a short time but both found we missed the lifestyle less than a month later. It’s something we both enjoy and want for each other. We also find it enhances our experiences together by far and it’s made our own time together even more intense.
I found accepting a label tricky at first but try not to overthink the terminology now. I enjoy what we do and feel that it makes our relationship stronger. We both have full trust in one and other and whilst the green eyed monster can fleetingly raise its head, I have learnt that there is a fine line between envy and arousal. I have grown to love seeing and hearing all about what happens, it’s extremely interesting and I’m privileged to be able to experience this.
I hope that helps to answer any questions. I only wish I could speak in more detail.
Firstly I’m glad you’re both doing well.
Even better is that you both feel your current arrangement has made your relationship, sexual or otherwise, even stronger.
Again, your comments are pretty insightful.
We miss you here, but we just feel lucky when you pop around occasionally.
Take care, and again, thank you for entertaining my questions!!!
I find the way you explain it very helpful. You really break down this activity in a matter of factly, down to earth, relatable way.
Cucking isnt for us i think, but you certainly make us understand how and why it works for you, in a way few other people have been able to describe. Thanks again.
