My oh has none either, so she says anyway. But I have no reason to not believe her.
I on the other hand, have loads. 
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Same boat. My wife never tells me her fantasies or shares the porn links she watches solo.
We played x confessions free sex app where you say yes or no and only see each compatable matches.
We’ve got some great matches on there and have done a few so far but still have many many to tick off.
Slowly getting through them, my wife likes lots of sleep so when she’s tired it’s more quickie vanilla sex which is fine.
But she knows I’m pretty kinky and like to have long sex sessions and tick lots of boxes.
Sometimes I feel like I pester her a bit with some signal sexting.
Lately I’ve just been doing a lot more things to myself during long solo sessions which is great fun.
Wife likes hot tubs hot showers not a big fan of ice so I’ve been playing with ice myself.
My wife will occasionally finger my bum prostate massage but won’t peg me so I have dildos and toys to do that.
I know my wife watches rough porn sex by herself but we never have rough sex, I’ve sled her and she says she likes watching it but doesn’t want to do it.
I would like to spank her. I spank her bum a bit during sex but it doesn’t go anywhere dedicated.
I would like her to spank me but think she’ll think it’s a bit odd so today I self spanked myself.
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What there is a app for that lol I remember back in the day doing this in love letters. Someone stole my idea
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Reading erotic fiction makes my imagination run wild. It’s great for broadening your fantasy repertoire. 
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Well is she open to actually talking about it, or she actually does not care much for talking about sex at all ?
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My wife has always been very open about sex. She grew up in a strict Catholic family but you wouldn’t know it. She was a virgin when we got together but her attitudes in regard to sex you wouldn’t have known. She has never had a problem telling me what she likes, wants or fantasies about.
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My wife fairly similar, as far as fantasies and general thoughts about sex being few and far between. It’s something I have brought up a few times this year in conversation asking if she has anything fantasy, which was met with a kind of ‘why are you asking this, what’s gotten into you’ Comment. I have said I don’t want to get to get years down the line and not have explored stuff that you might enjoy. But fair enough I guess, she is so honest and if she doesn’t have any she isn’t going to make something up.
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Exactly my situation. We have had some memorable ‘sharing moments’ where I ‘came out’ as a lover of wearing panties and other lingerie. She was good about it, but is clear that ‘it does nothing for me’. We had another session where we looked at porn and I told her I really was turned on by tv/tsp porn, and was probably bisexual to a degree. She again is supportive, but won’t be drawn into owning up to what turns her on.
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