O.K. I know we have two kids and a dog, she works, I work, she does breakfast, I take kids to school, she does dinner, I get kids ready for bed, etc, etc, all pretty equal.
However! why is it that I am the one that has to single handedly put the spark in to our marriage, I cook and organise dates nights, I organise going to the cinema & meal, I have to buy all the sex toys/outfits for her etc (which is great as I get to choose exactly what turns me on), again, however she does know what turns me on and to be surprised with a hot outfit not of my choosing would be awsome. I organise romantic (dirty) weekends away that she loves.
I'd just like to be a passenger for once rather than the driver/tour operator!!!!
We have constant chats about this, things pick up as a gesture on her part, however soon after it all goes back to the normal routine!
She tells me that she has soooooo much to think about, however I do to, what with running my own business, funny thing though she has plenty of inclination and passion to organise a "girls night" and plenty of imagination and energy for this too!!!!!
Shes now planning a "meal get together night" at our house for her clients, which just makes me think she just can't be bothered in investing anything in to keeping our flame shining brightly, I feel that if I let things go on my part, our relationship will suffer!
Any ideas, as I'm getting pretty fed up of the current scenario ?
Thanks X