Something that’s definitely in the “hot fantasy” realm, but absolutely zero desire to make it anything but that. Definitely shows up in our dirty talk, especially while DP or sensory deprivation + toys, talking about who else is in the room heightens the mood for sure, but only in the right context.
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No problem with it at all. But then we met via a swingers site so i guess thats no surprise. We met others together before we married, then took a 5 year break for work/life reasons, but got back into swinging about 18 months ago and are enjoying it now more than ever. We’re even exploring finding a couple of guys we trust for her to meet alone, once weve met them a few times together to ensure we’re all compatible and happy.
100% trust is essential. Its not for everyone and it should never be seen as a solution to any problems in someones sex life, nor just an idea to ‘spice things up’ a bit if you feel your sex life has become dull.
But do it safely and with boundaries and rules clearly understood and its an awesome thing.
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I have expressed to OH I would be up for swinging/open relationship as well as giving a threesome a go. Or though the timing was poor on my part my partner is glad I shared this with him. It is not something that is currently on the cards of us he is is now very curious.
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It’s a fantasy for us but not one we have any plans to turn into reality. But in the future? Maybe
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I definitely would but I would also want to be fucked by him
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Yup, we do this all the time. Shared her with lots of guys and it’s a huge turn on. There’s a thread on here about our journey as well in the swinging world x
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I’m definitely up for it, we have discussed it along with talking about swinging.
My OH concluded he would be happy for me to have sex with another women but more issues around if it was a man…
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I know that my husband would never share me with anyone as he has told me.
To be honest if he said he wanted me to have sex with another bloke alarm bells would ring as it would make me think he is already having sex with someone else and is feeling guilty so he wanted me to as well so he would not feel bad about it.
Sex for us is an intimate sharing of our two bodies and the pleasure we give each other during the act and not just about sexual gratification.
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Not for me, she’s all mine and vice-versa
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Absolutely not, it would completely destroy us. My husband and I have both been involved in poly stuff before (separately, whether we wanted/expected it at the time or not but those are other stories) and as someone else mentioned here, sometimes a fantasy is ‘just a fantasy’ for a reason.
Just a question (not hating on the preference or lifestyle in any way) but wanted to ask why is it always a statement of ‘share my wife/woman’ but never a thing to want to share one’s husband/man…? Is it typically more hot for men to want to see their woman getting taken or ‘enjoying’ someone else?
Just never really hear about women talking about ‘sharing’ their man or wanting to see him sleep with someone else. (I mean, maybe in a gay situation or a BDSM non/less sexual situation, but girls don’t seem to want to share, especially not with other girls 
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It’s not. Whether you’re looking at “hot-husbanding” or “cuckqueening” or just swapping/swinging, there’s plenty of fantasies and expressions for sharing of a male partner, if that’s what you’re looking for.
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Oh wow, I’ve actually never heard of “hot-husbanding” or “cuckqueening” before.
The more you know! Thank you for responding 
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Obviously, both my husband and I have sex with others, and it works well. No cuck vibes, just us each enjoying watching or hearing about the other one’s orgasms. I’m having the time of my life!
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I’ve reached the stage where I’d let my wife have sex with someone else if she wanted. She doesn’t want to have with me
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We regularly fantasise about this when having sex. Mrs HC has an admirer who is keen on a MMF. No cuck stuff.
Just need to make it happen now.
We are both very turned on by the idea of it.
Mrs HC loves the fact that both her admirer and I have wanked over this fantasy.
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It is a big step, and I know some couples really can’t cope with the reality, but some can. If you genuinely think you can both cope with it, then lay some ground rules and go for it. We’ve never looked back, and our relationship is stronger than ever.
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No. We both don’t want it. Haven’t talked about it but I know we won’t want it. But we love being watched by others.
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Should the title of this thread read,
Wife / Husband Share ?
Just wondering if the question should be
’ would you share your wife / husband ?
We wouldn’t want to share each other with anyone else, not even as a fantasy.
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You’re correct to comply with forum rules.
I dont think it had offended anyone, mind you. Have amended the title in any case.
It would be appropriate for anyone to share their views/stories on sharing their partners.
Me - i wouldn’t share her except in the context of a MFF/FMF threesome that will never happen. I’m greedy.
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