We watch threesome and couples swapping porn a lot, but know for certain we’d never act on it in real life.
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Definitely one of those things that sounds hotter in theory than it would be in reality for me I think.
Maybe a couple swap where both parties are in the same place but even that’s a stretch.
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100% sounds like fun but a fantasy is all it would be for us to much to lose if you have a good sex life why risk it all for a fantasy
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It is a thing x
For us it’s every other week or so.
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I think currently its a definite no from the wife. Im open to it in the right enviroment though.
Mmm my wife just agreed to wanting another guy. I have been a her only one and it turns me on. May never happen but I’m ok with her flirting and texting.
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I would be willing in a MMF situation, but would not be comfortable if it was her and another man or women. I have fantasied about it, but she is not into it.
Not for me (or, I’m guessing my wife). We are a one-for-one couple and happily so.
I would most likely try a soft swap with both couples present in same room, but know wife wouldn’t even go for this.
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Fantasy land for me….
Super hot to think about, but we know us well enough to know it wouldn’t end well for us.
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Last night while we were playing with the 8” dildo, I asked my wife if she liked his big cock and she moaned in agreement and with a loud oh yes I do. She knows it’s a fantasy of mine while she’s sucking my cock and using her toys. I know she enjoys the fantasy as well…
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@Scottishfunk ah man this sucks that there’s been no real change for you in this situation!!
I reckon if my other half knew of your predicament she’d want to help you out 
…..we’d be feeding into fantasy territory even thinking about that 
It’s been too long for ya now buddy. You say you’d be willing for her to have sex with someone else but you’re the one longing for it for so long from her.
I’m sure it’s beyond frustrating for you after such a long time, especially if it’s got to the point were there has been no real communication about it all between you lately??
Hope you’re well considering buddy 
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No developments sadly. Now resigned to the fact I may never have sex again and at 41 that’s a grim thought
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Sorry to hear that as that is a very difficult situation to be in. Of course many will say just leave or cheat, but to me that is an extreme measure and the way you write it seems you love her too much for such extreme measures.
Any ideas why she doesn’t want to have sex with you.
We just don’t talk about it. I have given up trying. She’s always been prudish and uncomfortable talking about sex. She had a c section for our daughter and I know she still gets some pain from that. She’s also conscious about her appearance since.
Mrs here
I would really find it horny to see my Mr with another woman, 
we met each other by me watching him fucking another woman before I joined them both .
That was 9 years ago , we’ve not revisited scenario but often chat about doing so …….. so yes id happily share my man
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Do you think he would like to see you with another guy? I think my gf would struggle watching me with another woman as she would get too jealous, but she’s coming around to being with another guy, slowly, when I’ve said it was a turn on
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So was he with his then partner of was it just a woman he had met?
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Sorry to hear that’s there’s been no developments for you man…hang in there though buddy…it’ll happen in good time even if it does mean having to make some tough decisions, hopefully it’ll not have to come to that though 
41 certainly won’t be the age you’ll be resigning to the thought of not having sex again!
Always take care and keep in touch on here with how things are going 5
I’ve recently found myself wanting to share my wife with another woman, preferably one of her friends. That’s replaced my fantasy of her an another man and I for the time being 
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