I have a massive fantasy about sharing my wife with other guys in threesomes , foursomes etc. I would love to tel her so we could roleplay this but how would she take it do you think, she is fairly adventurous but would she think i m weird
The only person that can answer this is your wife. Some people will be happy to share partners and others won’t be. Some people will be happy to be shared and some won’t.
I’m not up for sharing a partner or being shared, and I’m fairly adventurous and kinky. Being adventurous ≠sharing.
maybe slightly different but when me and boyfriend go on holidays we always get two other men too ride us. so not really sharing we just like getting bucked at the same time
You really need to talk it through with your wife but you could introduce it initially by role playing it with you and a dildo to see if she even likes the idea of DP then go from there.
This can only really be answered by your wife…… I had the same to be fair and actually spoke to her about it outside of the bedroom which worked…… really well
It’s been mentioned on here before but there is an app that delves deep into what each of you like! You answer questions on your own phone and she answers on hers if you get a match it’s an easy way to talk about it either face to face or on the app! We found out some things we didn’t know about each other after 30 years
We still have it and it’s subscription if you want but isn’t really needed. We have the subscription more because I was curious and it is worth it but will probably not renew next year ……. Probably I can still see it on App Store as well
She doesn’t have to like it for it to be ok for you to share it … sharing
Think it’s fairly common … i have this fantasy … my wife knows … she likes the fantasy although doesn’t want to play it out … she does indulge in a bit of flirting to get me off … I love it when she tells me about other guys fancying her … she’s the woman I fantasise about most and I find sexiest … so not a surprise that she’s the centre of my sexual fantasies
I used to tell my ex stories about other make believe guys I pretended I’d been with and I now have the fantasy where I’d love to be the hot wife. You can bring it up and see how she reacts or put on some porn in that kind of genre and see if she likes it. It grew on me. At first I wasn’t all that into it now I’m more keen than he was to do it in real life.
I’m not a woman but my lovely wife and I went through this, the kicker being she had the inclinations instead of me. Hopefully this will help.
It’s hard to say what reaction you will get. I will say coming out with it and pushing her to want something she doesn’t or may be open to is a poor decision. My wife never presented her desires as anything more than the fantasies of a woman in a monogamous marriage. I had never thought of what she was relating to me. She was pretty locked into the fantasy and we role played it frequently. Eventually I felt comfortable enough to tell her I would like to see her with another man or men. Full disclosure we have not acted on it but we continue to move our way towards that.
I think discussing things and being open is a necessity. My wife never rushed or pressured but felt comfortable enough to open up. I hope you and your OH have the same.
My OH tells me all about the guys she used to fuck! The most exciting one was that when she was married, a work colleague of her husband had spoken to her in a shop and told her how beautiful she was and if he had the chance what he would do to her. She jokingly told him to come round one day when her hubby wasn’t home, thinking that he wouldn’t be able to because he worked with her husband. She got the shock of her life when he turned up one day. She just let him in, ripped his clothes off and started to suck on his cock. She loves telling me how he fucked her on the stairs, on the dining room table and the couch! Apparently he came round 3 days in a row, he just couldn’t get enough of her, as I know, because she is one hell of a fuck!