Will a feeldoe work with base inserted anally? Obviously it's designed to be used in the vagina, but as I have an intermittent erection difficulty and use a strap on at difficult times I'd like to avoid a full harness if possible, in case it comes back half way through, as it were. If there's sufficient length in the penis end of a feeldoe (probably need the biggest one) to reach from my bum to my partner's vagina I could use the feeldoe and change to the real thing more easily than with a harness. Does that sound reasonable? Or will all the lengths and angles be wrong? I'd buy one to try it if they weren't so expensive.
Took me a few reads to figure out what you were asking!
I think it would work - that's what they're designed for!! (well, not anally but it is a strapless strap on) Anatomically we're a little different but I think it's doable.
If you buy one with Lovehoney and it doesn't work, you can send it back for a full refund, no questions asked. If it does work, well then it's probably a good investment anyway. LH do one for about £22
Sorry, I was trying to be reasonably discreet - should have called a spade a spade!
Thanks for that info - I've found the toy you mentioned and at £22 it's worth buying one to see how it fits. It might not get used much, anyway; I think having it will make me more confident so I'll be less likely to be unable to perform. Hoping so, anyway!
I don't see any reason why using a strapless strap-on wouldn't work, but you'd have to find one which suited your anatomy and which made you feel comfortable. Of course we do have our no-quibbles returns policy so if it wasn't for you, you could send it back for a refund.
You could also look at getting a strap-on kit with an open crotch, which leaves your own penis exposed as well as having a dildo attached. This is a great option for people who want to switch seamlessly between using the attachment and their own penis, and is also ideal for those wanting to experiment with double penetration.
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21669 - This item is an example, and although it's out of stock currently I've checked with the buyers who are expecting a delivery in on the 30th of January. You could always order both styles!
Thanks for those suggestions, girls. I've ordered the Toy Joy Feeldoe-alike to see how it goes. We'll probably find a use for that, whatever. If it doesn't do the job I'm trying to sort, then I'll move on to your suggestions next.
Lovehoney - Hella wrote:
I'd recommend the Sedeux Deux harness. It has a cock ring for your chap with a dildo mounted above it. Should be just the ticket. :) http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=8748
I have that one, does exactly what you're looking for, and does it well. Tried the Feeldoe thing too, it's a little bit awkward since it's kinda coming out underneath you, if you get what I mean?
Go for the double one, I have and it gets plenty use!