Im in my early 50s and in menopause. I have never used a toy before and bought the womanizer next. When I use it, I feel really really good for like 2 seconds and then no matter what I do, I dont get that feeling back. Am I doing something wrong? I don’t move it at all so its not from change of angle, etc.. and I used lubrication. Could this be an orgasm? I dont think so as it happens shortly after I start using it. Maybe because of menopause I can no longer get aroused? Just confused and wanted to know if there is something else I should be doing. Also, after it feels good for 2 seconds, when I continue for several minutes, I just end up sore and not comfortable. Thanks
That doesn’t sound great. I will say it’s well known that during Menopause orgasms can be harder to achieve - I’m part of a group on Facebook and ladies after report slower to build, less intense O’s or even nothing at all.
I don’t think you are doing anything differently than I did with mine. Small drop of lubricant for better placement. I mainly used autopilot or if I wanted it quicker, the highest setting.
Can you achieve an orgasm naturally? If so do you get sore that way aswell? (Trying to rule out that the toy head material or toy isn’t the issue).
Hopefully others with more experience, will be along and can maybe offer some better advice.
