Women and porn

You certainly have the right attitude, never say no until you have tried it. You and hubby seem to be doing very well on it anyway so good to you both. How is the other lady, (name forgets me) was it Victoria? @KinkyMira

I do like to watch porn mainly on my own at the moment and it’s normally when I am ready to masturbate to really get me in the mood.

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Yes, it was Victoria and she’s engaged to Laura now, and they are moving from down south up here, so they’ll be close by again. I’ve missed them when they’ve been down south.

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Fair enough

We were watching porn on Saturday night, but just couldnt find the right theme for my wife at that particular moment. It is sometimes like that .
I think we prefer watching porn , where the people involved could be people like ourselves.
She says im still a ''readers wife" type of guy.

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I only really watch with hubby, and to be honest, I am very picky.

I don’t really like seeing oral either way, and don’t like closeups or anal. Finding decent stuff is actually very difficult. We quite like the site SexArt as that has the occasional closeup with hubby likes, and I usually just focus on him when the oral stuff is going on. I like seeing wide shots of humping and actually get quite impressed by some of these girls acting haha

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@TheSledge . That is a really good site . They upload a selection on to other free sites.
Thank you, i think my wife will enjoy somecof these .From what you say , i think she is on a similar page to you regards taste in porn.

Husband pays for AdultFilm - we prefer using a paid site as those ones where anyone can upload are a bit dodge I think. That site gets 1 sexart every few weeks which we look foward, and I’m sure he makes the most of the subscription otherwise!!

Sorry it’s called AdultTime

Guilty. Tend to watch porn on my own rather than with partner and he is the same, we probably only watch together couple of times a year. For me it is always to aid with masterbation . Go to tops tend to be BBC/BWC, gangbangs and rough play. Long story as to the reasons for choice.

Hubby watches a lot which doesn’t bother me at all, though I guess I might feel a bit weird if we was into really hardcore choking and stuff. He shows me the stuff he’s been watching, trys to give me ideas I think! I always know he’s been watching because the volume on the telly is low in the morning, hehe

I think sites like Youporn etc are used to promote their movies and attract potential new members.

I used to watch it before I met my fiancƩ, however neither of us have been interested since being together, we prefer to do it ourselves :joy:

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My wife hardly watches it. Only if we are having a mutual masturbation session and I put it on will she watch but then it has to be something she would enjoy. For her it’s not about visuals it’s about touch/connection etc

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I used to think that women didn’t watch porn because they were ā€œ less visualā€ … I’ve learnt a lot … in my limited experience women’s sexuality seems a lot like men’s…

Most porn is made my men for men… hence all the blow jobs and cum shots but very little focus on female pleasure …

Wife and I love some of the more real couples stuff and subscribe to lustery … which is excellent

The reason i started the thread , was to get an insight into others ( particularly womens) views, watching habits and tastes in relation to my wifes.
My wife likes porn to an extent , but is turned off by many aspects of it.
It can be a prelude to an erotic sexual session where she just shuts the computer screen and wants to play rather than spectate.
If she notices me watching porn while we are in bed and she is reading, she may look to see if its interesting . I certainly have specific tastes in porn, which are mainly real mature amature themes.

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I rarely watch porn alone but I should do it more probably. I analyse everything when I watch it if I’m not really really in the mood. I used to watch it with my bf who watched it all the time.

My preferred genre is hard core. Anything with just two people bores me as I feel like I’d rather just be doing it myself.

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Thats fair enough… i might be in the minority as a heterosexual male, but i find some of the hard core somewhat brutal or gross.
If i think there is anything coercive or feel a woman is being taken advantage of, i switch off.
Its a bit like a fantasy for me, in that it has to be a situation that i could realistically be present in.
Bukkake scenes for example i dont enjoy as it makes me feel the woman is being abused ( just how i feel).
Anything that involves women who are albeit just legally eligible I immediately scroll past.
My wife is more drawn to mature couples and where the women have a real every day women’s body like herself.
Fake boobs are a turn off for both of us.

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I think your comments are spot on and I agree with them all. I also don’t like blow job which take a long time and then the man does not go down on the lady.

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I very rarely watch it alone, it’s not my thing and I don’t need it for masturbation.

My OH is a big fan though so it’s usually on the TV in our bedroom as that’s basically all it’s used for. If he’s in that mood he’ll sometimes ask for sex in doggy while we watch it. But it’s more his thing to be honest.

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