One for female forum members.( if you are Transgender by all means respond)
My wife and i enjoy watching porn together, if she is in the right frame of mind.
She doesnt watch porn on her own ( at least she tells me that).
Men are generally more visually stimulated and often use porn as an assist to masterbation.
Women i believe rely less on visual stimulation.
As a woman , do you watch porn on your own.?
Is it to assist with masterbation. ?
Do you prefer to watch with your partner.?
What is your preferred porn genre.?
Is there any other aspect you’d like to add regarding porn.?
MOD EDIT: Do you know if your partner watches porn on her own?
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I’m not a fan of porn as it is now - but have in the past enjoyed old school porn where the woman is dressed in sexy lingerie and strips then naked -
I hate porn where the guy just slips in in and she is all ooh - just rubbish
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Good topic - I’m also keen to understand a bit more about this from a female perspective. How did you both get into watching porn together?
My wife and I never have watched it together and I don’t think she has done previously. I understand porn isn’t necessarily a true reflection of real life but I think it might result in trying new things.
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@taskmaster . We got in to it in a discussion about our sex life and we decided it might be fun watching together. She is quite specific in her taste.
She finds porn that focuses immediately on the woman sucking the guy off, a bit boring. So do i to be honest.
We steer more towards more older or mature couples. If there is some girl on girl its ok, but not searched specifically. Guy on guy definitely NO.
If its the Hollywood very staged type , thats a turn off. Probably drawn more to amature real couples.
Worth suggesting to your OH and get her to search a potential type that may appeal to her.
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@batjamboree . Totally agree on the stereo typical " oohhh ahhh f@#k my pussy " Hollywood type. Some of European stuff is like that.
Real earthy amature is much more arousing.
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I cannot agree more, @batjamboree old school definitely better. I also hate men getting all the blow jobs and the lady gets nothing.
Yes, I do watch porn on my own. We both do.
It isn’t to assist with masturbation, no. But if I find some “good stuff”, it will lead to masturbation and orgasm.
Actually, I don’t prefer watching with my partner, and in fact, I’m not keen and we very rarely do. Probably the only circumstance in which we do is to look at something specific so that we can try it ourselves for real. That’s more analytical and not what I would consider real porn watching. For me, a good porn viewing session is really a solo activity, so I can get totally in the moment.
I don’t really have a preferred genre. As you know @Iwill, I’ve been watching Nadia Foxx lately and she’s really been turning me on. That’s a genre/scenario I’ve never watched porn for before. I am partial to some vintage often European stuff (you can blame my husband for that, as he likes that - makes him feel young, and I made him love me for ever and ever by finding him an online archive of old 80s and 90s porn mags!) Apart from that, I’m all over the place, often watching a couple of videos from a genre before moving on.
I think for me, I’ve realised that the look of the woman is important for me. I need to really fancy the woman to get the most out of it. If I don’t fancy her, then it doesn’t have the same impact. That Hollywood glossy fake boobs look does nothing for me. I do love the amount of independent creators there are around today, making all sorts of things that one might enjoy. The things that most get me off are things where it isn’t the woman on screen experiencing that, but me. Like swinging and snapping boobs - I know what that feels like (and I love it), so seeing it on screen somehow switches in my mind to it happening to me. Hope that makes sense.
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I’m not into porn, so I don’t watch it. It just feels fake some of it, even though I am one of those who can make some noise when he enters 
only at some angles (he’s big in length and girth) he hits my spot instantly, and with me already aroused it can be sensitive. We do like to make our own, that I like to watch when I masturbate. For me, nothing gets me off more than our own material 
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We watch porn together and separately. We watch a lot of amateur. We aren’t into fake screaming in ecstasy.
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I watch porn a fair bit especially if I want a fast orgasm… but Im really fussy, so finding something good takes ages
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I’m not overly into porn, I only really use it to get a visual on something I want to try. Porn is more research for me but if it does turn me on then I’ll take advantage of it. I’d rather watch my own videos though as they’re more of a turn on.
I do remember once trying to find a good gay gangbang and I ended up giving up, they were all rubbish and I’d lost my horn 
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@JoCat . What was the thing with the gay gangbang.? I wouldnt have imagined that being of your interest.?
Its different from the sex I have, and I love watching men having sex. I don’t want to be apart of it though, just in the room.
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I’m not sure about this assumption that women’s needs are different to men’s when it comes to porn. If there is a gender divide I think it’s more likely due to gender stereotypes and gender expectations that were instilled in some of us when we were young. I was taught that sex was dangerous, degrading and for men’s enjoyment. I was taught that it was wrong to be proud of myself, be confident in my body and that humility, body shaming and shyness were good things for a girl. I honestly think that, if we were all taught the same things when we were growing up, there wouldn’t be a difference in attitudes towards porn and sex between genders, only differences between individuals due to natural variation in sex drive, personality and interests. That being said, I’m non-binary (biologically female) and don’t believe in a gender binary system or wish to conform to those expectations. I enjoy watching porn alone when masturbating to help me get aroused. I don’t watch porn with my husband because our tastes are very different and too be honest, I’d rather he didn’t know what I watched because it’s personal. I’ve often been told that I have the brain of a man when it comes to sex but again, I think that’s because the people who used to say that, had very narrow views of how a woman should behave and were shocked that I didn’t behave in the way they expected. Sorry, i don’t know why that went a bit deep and philosophical when it was a question about porn but I’ve written it now so obviously needed to get it off my chest!
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Agree with a lot of what @Kitty-Cat01 said. I was taught porn was dirty, sex was all for men’s enjoyment and I should be demure and “lady-like”. Lol - how did that all work out?! 
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If that was what you were taught @KinkyMira what / who changed your mind. My wife is exactly as you were taught ( sex was for making babies, nothing else). She has never changed and has the same mind set. She is missing out on so much enjoyment.
Well, my relationship with my mother was never good (still isn’t), and I learned at an early age that if she hated it (whatever it was), it was probably fun. (That was for pop music, sex, gardening, you name it).
So, I experimented and made up my own mind. I really didn’t care what she thought or said, I just wanted to learn for myself. In a lot of ways, I still have the same attitude - one of the reasons I love all those kinks that are looked down on in polite company. I’ve found impolite company is much more fun!
Also a part of it was determination to not be like her. In any way. In some ways, she did me a big favour being as she is…
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