Would you allow another woman to spank your man while you watch

Me and my husband are going to a Christmas party at my friends house next month - but it’s a ‘ladies night’ where all people are dressed as woman - we did this last year and we loved it - but it was about 8 woman and only 3 men (all dressed)

He looks great dressed up - biggest worry is the car drive there and back which is over 40 miles each way - he is not comfortable being seen by others

But my friend has said she would be happy to spank his ass - and we could do this together (I was saying the other day my husband wants more harder spanking and being caned )

He is fine with it / but I’m not sure

Last year we saw one of the men dressed up and spanked infront of us - and the women cheered and laughed

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Surely it wouldnt be too much trouble for him to get changed into women’s clothing at the house your spending the evening at?

And plenty of time to find him a good spanking skirt/dress

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Go with your feelings, soon can get changed once arrived and before the drive home…
Spanked for not arriving or leaving dressed haha,
End of the day if stopped youve been to a fancy dress party… but are you really going to get out the car unless something bad happens

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My wife has a very good friend with a Sissy husband.All four of us have become close over the last few years and we often have evenings together with all four of us dressed in sexy lingerie plus French Maid costumes,St.Trinians etc etc…We do have a no touch/sex rule with each partners but over the last few weeks the wives do now spank us both.They take it in turns to spank and sometimes cane the pair of us.Knickers up and down to deliver our punishment.Occasionally our cocks will rub against stocking clad legs as we are dealt with and it feels very sexy and erotic.We still have the no sex rule in place although this weekend both the Sissy and myself are to be put into a chastity cage after being milked.The wives have teased us with the thought they may swap partners to deliver both the milking and the caging.I am pretty sure this is just teasing although we will all be together and obviously exposed whilst the women lock away our manhood.Either way just the thought of watching my wife milk him whilst her friend does the same to me is really turning me on.Either way even If it just remains as teasing and we are dealt with by our own spouses it is fine and i have enjoyed the effect the thought of this has had on me.Both of our wives however admitted they enjoy spanking us both and having each of us across their laps and say it is a turn-on.

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@batjamboree we have never been in that situation however it all depends on how friendly you are with the group and how your partner felt about being spanked in front of other women/men

You do seem to be a couple that are really enjoying spanking each other I would see how thing go.on the night and go with both your feeling however could it lead onto more adventurous things

Maybe just go with it and see what happens as long as you and he is alright for that to go down at the party :nerd_face:

The dress aspect will be fine - it’s Christmas after all and could be fancy dress

@AWB1955 - she is my best friend and others there are husbands/ wives- all like minded into bondage / domination

Sounds great @batjamboree. If your husband doesn’t want to go for any reason, I’ll go with you​:wink::laughing:. As for the spanking by another woman, can you just say yes or no at the time depending on how you feel or how the party is going?

This is going to be perhaps the least surprising post in history…

Of course I would. If everyone is consenting, what’s the problem? If it happened last year and went off well, sounds great fun. Go for it!

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@Hornycd - he is well in for it - I got his dress and he is to wear Cottelli black wet look bra with infill with deep suspender belt matching to keep his belly in with black knickers and black stockings

I know from last year the men are asked to remove their dresses while the women admire - I want his underwear to look good

The others there are very open minded and it’s a very open sex talk and talk about everything

I don’t share my man and I’m not for sharing- but this is just fun and I know the host very well and she is very good at the cane - very accurate

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It’s very safe and very open minded/ it’s like this forum but in real life / 2 years ago I met a fellow Lovehoney forum member and we still communicate - but in all honesty 2 years ago I was spanking him

Last year my husband was offered a golden rum cocktail- he loved it - but I knew it was 50% host piss

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Sounds incredible, have a wonderful time. I need to find a new circle of friends I think​:laughing::laughing:

@Hornycd - they are a good group- most talk is about lingerie - many of the woman also strip to their lingerie - not my thing

They also talk about sex / sex positions and men

The men are the partners - but we openly discuss all issues - crossdressing and spanking as well as humiliation are popular as well as pegging

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@batjamboree ok at least you know them all which is good hope ypu all have a lovely time

This sounds like it could potentially progress into more, I’d have the discussion with your husband to see how far you’re willing to go if the opportunity arose.

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We know that’s a definite no /

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Good that you’re on the same page with that. If you’re not comfortable with your friend spanking your husband, then shut it down before it gets anymore energy.

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A friend caned and flogged me at her house upstairs, while her partner was downstairs and so was one of their female friends.

I loved the experience, but it would have been better not having her boyfriend in the house for some reason.

Golden Rum Cocktail :yum: Sounds gorgeous.I am sure my wifes friend will gift me one of these if i ask her nicely. :heart:

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