if its unhealthy then i'll probably be dead by the time i'm 40, i orgasm 2 or 3 times a day!!
From a guys point of view masturbating every day particulalrly in an older guy can desenitise the member which may lead to frustrations in love making.
Thats the only negative thing I have heard and believe,
In some of the muslim countries it's considered unhealthy to orgasm. But it was the same all over the "western world" up to thesecond half of the 20th Century. Mothers told their children they'd destroy their brains if masturbating. The expression "keep your hands over your cover" explains how it was.
Luckily for us those ideas disappeared during second half of 20th Century. No one, except for parts of the muslim world, would ever claim it's unhealthy with masturbation. On the contrary, it helps you relax which is so important in our stressful society.
As an older couple what mysteron says is perfectly true. It applies to both sexes but especially blokes. That is not me being nasty, it is just what nature decides. I think that a lot of the poeple on the lovehoney furum are young not a pair of old duffers like us (well we are not old just older) :-)
I hope it doesn't affect you badly as I am well and truly screwed lol. I have to cum at least once a day more often than not it is 2-3 times a day. I love the feel of an orgasm and the release relaxation and wave of pleasure as I cum wether it's by myself or with my girlfriend.
So if I have to die early because of it I can think of worse ways to go
I wish but with job n shift work and oh banning me occasionally as he needs a rest not likely and no solo rule :( stilll on holiday in 2 weeks... grinning ;)
I was told by a fertility doctor the more you cum the more you make, there was no point in trying to save it, I think nature takes it course differently with different people, I'm 53 and it's working as well today as it has always been.
paulsballs wrote:
I was told by a fertility doctor the more you cum the more you make, there was no point in trying to save it, I think nature takes it course differently with different people, I'm 53 and it's working as well today as it has always been.
No point in saving it up in case it goes off, LOL.
myghost wrote:
Orgasming every day is beneficial to general health if you are stressed, can't sleep suffering with period cramps in men i believe it can help prevent against certain male cancers' and if you do it frequently is supposed to make orgasming easier to achieve though i find if i'm having one every day i find it progressively harder to get one so need to take a break for a couple of days
Well, it may prevent certain male cancers but it certainly doesn't stop it !!
I have never heard that before, sounds like nonsense to me. I thought they discovered regular orgasms were good for you lol
Sounds total rubbish like the church saying its wrong to think of sex!!!! Cum at least once a day - long may it continue!!
As someone who has done it at least once almost daily for the last 18 years or so, I can safely say nothing has fallen off yet!
Me and the hubby are at it everyday nearly. Sometimes 2 - 3 times a day, so would say I orgasm quite a lot. So if it's bad for you then there's no hope for me lol and I ain't gonna stop either.
You only live once so go for it I say
The news recently featured story/stories that it is good for a man to orgasm every day, because this lessens the risk of prostate cancer. Searching for news stories related to "orgasm prostate" in your search of engine of choice should return lots of results. I'm very happy to go with this.
From what I've learnt, that's completely wrong. In fact, orgasming once a day can relieve stress and it's side effects as well as reducing blood pressure and the such. If anything, orgasming once a day is healthy for you, the same way your 5 fruit or veg is.
There are no proven side affects to masturbation, just social stigma as mentioned a few times in the thread. Even things such as anal masturbation have no proven long term negatives as long as you're not silly about it. So yeah, don't believe everything you hear. ;)
Boogaloo wrote:
Hahah yes ;) when it's that many times a day my lady bits go "ugh no, I can't be bothered with this any more" and I have to give it a rest!
+1 to this, I get like this a lot at the moment, it's reassuring to know it's not just me
I orgasm most days but sadly most of the time solo. I only get fun with my OH when our shift allow, so maybe twice a week. Orgasms with him are much better.
i can't see how orgasms could be bad for you, unless your staring at the to watching porn all day?