Terri JJ wrote:
I have so many kinks......oh knows them all, poor guy ! Lol
Exactly what I was going to say! Fortunately my wife is happy to explore most with me.
I also have some secret toys that my OH doesn't know about, I shop too much 😁
There's no kinks I have that my OH doesn't know about, same for toys, although I have some I use solo, I don't hide any from her.
I have a fantasy she doesn't know about, but I have no intention to carry it out, it's purely fantasy :)
I enjoy cumming in my mouth
my OH probably has a good idea what my kink is, but admittedly i've not discussed it with her.
otherwise, i'd love to be able to get into anal play with her, but at the moment it is secretive solo. just lacking in confidence to tell her i guess.
I've wanted to try having a threesome a few times before but after an off hand discussion one night, we briefly talked about it and she said she'd feel jealous if there was someone else involved. She's been cheated on multiple times so I understand where she's coming from so I haven't brought it up since. I'd rather put her interests before my own.
We have explored a lot with each other though. If I get any new fantasies, I bring up hints to gauge her reaction before fully coming out with it.
We share everything but I don't think he quite knows how into my porn preference I am. We like very different porn and mine is a lot more... "extreme" and not something he's into so not something I talk about much. I don't feel like I'm hiding it it's just not something that features in our life
I've mentioned her taking my bum virginity with a starp on or a suitable male toy. But was met with an outright euww. .
So if that means keep in my kinkl to myself that I have some male anal toys then guilty.
This is the most interesting thread..
My relationship is still quite new so although he knows I like bondage and dom/sub play he doesn't know the ins and outs or how much I like it as he is very vanilla and I think if I said it all he would have a fright but slowly giving him more info as time goes on xx
we try to share everything, its not easy to talk about kinks, but we manage most of the times, we often talk during sex making up a story as we make love, both can join in, its interesting where things go sometimes