Yeah, I think sexuality is a fluid thing. We don’t have to be 100% straight or 100% gay, people can fall anywhere in between.
For me personally, I’m definitely interested in cock, but I don’t find myself attracted to men and wouldn’t want to date men.
It would be great if I could watch bi stuff with my wife and have her understand that it’s not necessarily something I desire to try out in person, but it does excite me sexually. I’ve been able to open up to her about enjoying anal play and other kinks, so now that I’ve done that, it might be the next thing to open up about.
It would be wonderful to be completely open and honest about myself sexually.
You’ve kinda hit the nail on the head there with me too, I have no attraction to guys whatsoever, but I find the thought of playing with another cock, whether that’s stroking or sucking, giving or receiving, incredibly hot!
My OH would never encourage me to explore this fantasy, either in real life or in porn. So this will remain a fantasy, except for a little MMF porn when I’m on my own!
Mostly bed….. I can’t give myself that kind of attention in the shower… sofa and maybe other places if I have the alone time. If I’m traveling for work I like to use the chairs the hotel room has to spice it up.. Makes me think I’m doing something extra naughty. As far as the orgasms, it depends on the mood and timing. Sometimes I like to slow it and bring myself up and down closer and closer until it’s big climax. Other times I like a long session with multiple. It really just depends on the mood!
Nice! The Lovense toys are amazing. Who would have thought that it would become possible to control a partner’s toy and orgasm from a completey different location. Pretty amazing and has created a whole new dimension to coupled fun and masturbation.
A quiet house with no pressure of tasks to do. Laying in bed or my easy chair, and reliving a recent or even older special time with my wife, or even ex. Slow, sensual stroking with lube until I get off.
Sometimes I will even do it while we are together in bed, she sleeping, and I can hear her softly breathing.
For me it’s in bed late at night lying on back with legs up and boxers round ankles to form a tent with the quilt. I don’t feel comfortable doing it with no cover over me. Will then lube up and get off edging for as long as possible before shooting into underwear.
If i have the house to myself over night and really in the moment i have forgot before now to grab underwear in time and end up cumming freely everywhere as not to ruin the moment, but it’s ok as I know I’m alone and can clean up the following day
Actually, if it is allowed , for her to be along side me, maybe, me, slowly stroking myself while she watches, perhaps aiding the pleasure by playing with my nipples until I orgasm, with no pressure to perform any action with her. Just a singlarily selfish moment for myself, which I never do.
@iano32 I wouldn’t necessarily say it’s a constant desire, it comes and goes (no pun intended) depending on my current state of horniness. There is something exciting about an erect cock, but other than that curiosity, maybe a j/o buddy, there is no attraction to guys otherwise.
I completely agree, a little peace and quiet can go a long way, alone time and the length of it, totally decides how and when I masturbate.
If pushed for time and privacy, then it’s usually a quick wank in the shower before facing the day ahead.
I’d much rather have a good couple of hours though…
The idea of a j/o buddy, not gonna lie, that sounds great
I think since knowing that my Mrs would be keen/up for either having someone or a lovely couple join us, the thought of seeing and/or playing with another cock is in my head quite frequently….maybe that’s were we differ
What makes you think this would be the case? I know you obviously know your OH better than me, duh, just from reading your last 2 ‘when did you last have sex posts’ she sounds absolutely awesome. Hope you don’t mind me saying that buddy!
And you seem just as awesome and open to exploring new things/scenarios
I wonder how the conversation would go it it presented itself between you and your OH in the heat of steamy session?
@iano32 What makes you think this would be the case?
Whilst our sex life is good, and I’d happily help my O/H with any sexual exploration she’d like to experience, I know that we are very much exclusive in the bedroom and respect that completely.
I’m very open to experimenting/trying new things sexually, and will often explore kinks or fantasies during my solo masturbation sessions but that is as far as they’ll go…
