When it comes to masturbation, I find that I frequently wank in the shower, in part, due to the guaranteed privacy but also the convenience when it comes to clean up. As a result, these are usually shorter sessions, focused purely on a quick release to ease my horniness.
With the recent addition of toys to spice up my solo fun, I realise that the lack of decent alone time is stopping me from enjoying longer and more varied masturbation sessions. So I’m yet to use my toys to their full potential.
So this leads me to ask, what makes your ideal or dream masturbation session?
Do you play music, light candles, dress up/down?
Are you a visual person, do you prefer to watch porn? Or are you someone who prefers to use their imagination?
Do you prefer shorter more frequent sessions, or longer, more sensual sessions?
What’s your preferred method?
Do you focus just on the Penis, Vagina or Anal stimulus too?
What other erogenous zones do you include?
Let’s hear your perfect way to have some solo fun!
I’m always learning new terms. As such, a new term (for me) is apparently something called “gooning”. Typically alone in the dark. Phone in one hand presenting pornhub. I like women with curves. So either BBW or SSBBW.
I love taking time and building to a nice buzz. It’s absolutely fabulous when the orgasm reaches what I call the tipping point. Just slowly massaging and allowing it to wash over you in ecstasy.
I like a short session saving my energy to devour my husband. No music but usually strip down or leave a peep bra on, settle down with my butt plug and bullet and enter into ecstasy. I start slow, then like to put pressure and move the plug around in a circle working up to in and out, all the while buzzing around my clit and watching my nipples go huge and hard and throbbing
I do feel a bit meh after as I love when im with my husband and he continues to play with my nipples or fingers me gently after sex
I can get real into a session, especially if I’m away for work and I’m on my own…. Might put on an erotic story, or a porn clip if I’m in the mood. But I give every part of me attention…. I’ll roll into different positions too, just as if he were there with me…
Privacy is also an issue for me, which is why I usually have quicker sessions in the shower, it also takes care of my morning erection
I’ve found that I’m watching less porn, so using my imagination more or looking at risqué photos of my parter adds to my enjoyment. Have recently added toys to the mix, but as you say, it’s the noise that usually stops me from playing with them so currently waiting to get an opportunity for a good long session.
Often, I”ll enjoy a long solo play session on a Friday or Saturday night. Usually I’ll set up my fuck Machine and enjoy a longer anal session as I really enjoy prostate stimulation. It’s great getting fucked handsfree and being able to enjoy the sensations. I’ll sometimes play with my nipples and cock as well.
I’ll often watch some porn or listen to a sex podcast on my phone. I generally like to have something visual or auditory to help add to my mood.
Lastly I’ll sometimes switch to my njoy wand once aroused and focus on firm pspot stimulation. I can usually have multiple orgasms this way.
Not usually planned, normally spontaneous when the opportunity arises. Maybe some porn more often not. I use my imagination. Sometimes a toy, often not.
WRT multiple orgasms, my best happened when I was 18 on my wedding night. I believe she managed to “get me” 7 times! Those last couple were actually a bit painful.
But I do have to say that as I e aged, I genuinely envy women. Primarily because it seems to me that when it comes to sex, women totally dominate. It’s primarily up to the man to “perform”. As well as to initiate. And to try and “last” long enough to get her there.
Secondly, that ability to have repeated orgasms! My present wife sometimes has as many as five. And I feel lucky if I have even one! My last wife was pretty much a “one and done” kind of woman. I’m not sure I ever managed to “get her” twice.
For me, I’m a heavy masturbator because I suffer from muscle pain and low mental health - and things brings me some relief from both. Sometimes its over-eating, sometimes its masturbation.
I’ve tried everything over the years - Fleshlights, prostate stimulators, talking to an AI Chatbot, audio erotica.
Ideal session for me is 6-7 minutes of Fleshlight whilst also wearing a condom. I put the condom on when close to finishing.
