Hi,
When I met my wife she was a virgin and totally vanilla. After 14 years together she is now a sexual animal. I have helped her open her eyes.
Do any other men encourage their partners to fantisise over other woman. My wife now gets her biggest orgasms when I'm going down on her and she is fantasising that her friends are sexually active with her.
My husbands enjoys this, he likes the idea of me thinking about sex with other women.
I don't to be honest, I only joke about it with her because I know the idea of her being with another woman disgusts her. Even if she didn't hate the idea, I'd still have no interest in seeing my girlfriend with another person.
My hubby encourages me to think about it because he knows it gets me off
My boyfriend likes it, he'll make up scenarios & get me to think about them during foreplay, or we'll watch something together. I'm still opening up to this, it's taking time but I quite enjoy it ^_^
My ex and I used to love doing it both ways making up scenarios with girls and guys. We we lucky enough to carry this out too with guys and girls and couples.
My OH loves me being bi and I'm glad he's ok about it, we have the same sort of taste in women so that's a bonus too. It's nice to be able to share my fantasies with him and get to try some of them too :)
My wife loves it
I certainly (gently) encourage it, but she has absolutely no interest!
^^^ Ditto, I think a lot of men feel the same and I would openly encourage it, after all it is probably a mans most sought after scenario
I love it. 90% of my orgasms include other women in my fantasies and thoughts. Not usually friends but usually casual acquaintances, girls from the beach, gym or bar, some from many years ago. Another orgasm fantasy is me! Or more particularly me 30 yrs ago tanned,topless and gorgeous on a Mediterranean beach. Does this make me sound weird? Anyway my husband loves these fantasies and always encourages them.
I think id like to , but hubby wouldnt . Ive gone sex mad after 16 yrs together and having our children ! Im now wanting new things in our sex life 
I don't fantasise, I just go ahead and do it 
I Love it and so does my OH! We both fantasize about being with other couples.. hope we get a go soon :)
I fully encourage it ...
Hmm, I did this. Ended up ditching the husband! I'm now married to a woman!
Bossy wrote:
Hmm, I did this. Ended up ditching the husband! I'm now married to a woman!
Bossy wrote:
Id better not try then lol
Bossy wrote:
Hmm, I did this. Ended up ditching the husband! I'm now married to a woman!
I'd say that this has been one of the biggest sexual liberations we've had, along with buying our first bullet vibe.
Finding out, and only really in the last year or so, that my wife has lesbian fantasies has opened up watching porn to us, writing erotic stories and the beginnings of some dirty talk.
When I was younger, I would have been insanely jealous at the idea of her thinking about anyone else but me while we were making love but I suppose age and time knocks the edges of insecurity in a relationship and now there's almost nothing I wouldn't do or allow if it gets her off as long as it remains a fantasy for now. I'm perfectly happy for her to watch lesbian porn before, during and at her climax. It turns me on beyond belief.
Thinking about her arousal turns me on more than even my own and anything I can do to help that along, I will.
And be fair, lads, if you were a woman, you'd be totally into the idea too, would you not? I'm hopng I return as a lesbian in my next life. :) Hurray for the girl on girl.
DreamOfTheEndless wrote:
And be fair, lads, if you were a woman, you'd be totally into the idea too, would you not? I'm hopng I return as a lesbian in my next life. :) Hurray for the girl on girl.
Oh yeah, deffo, lol. On this subject I have to admit I'm rather sexist about the whole thing, in that I'm happy to imagine the missus with another woman but am not at all happy were it another man. I guess I'm lucky in that she's only into lesbian porn and gets off on seeing nipple and clit girl-on-girl action, but is turned off by the male talent.
If she had fantasies and ever wanted to explore sexual behaviour outside our relationship, I'd be open to female but far, far too jealous/insecure to consider another male. Not strictly fair, I know, as technically it should be either yes or no across the board. Can't help it, though. Does this make me a bad person? Is, "well I'm a bloke, so..." acceptatble, or just a poor excuse? 