Sounds awesome, let us know how it goes!!!
@anna.michelsburg I have joined the queue unfortunately I am 1359,000 in the queue! Good luck I think you are going to be busy.
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Morning
I had sort of imagined I would only get replies from similarly tentative mid-30s mums who had similar experiences at university.
Thank you gentlemen!
OK. So a WFH day with the kids at school and the discussion with the friend is underway over WhatsApp.
The conclusions so far.
Its on. We are too old now to think things like snogs, boobs, hand-, and blow-jobs count. All that scores is a fuck. We agree that one a week is going to be almost impossible if only because we both have to be at home most mornings and nights. So, as a compromise we have come up with some more adaptable rules.
We have to get to 52 points:
5 points for a fuck on the same day as first proper contact, this means contact outside of a dating app, so email, text, phone or whatever. A bonus point for an excitement factor such as during lunch at work, after the supermarket, or a slutty meet on a quiet country lane.
2 points for a fuck after an arranged date following first contact day.
1 point for a repeat fuck.
We like this because it means that if we meet a nice chap we don’t have to cheat but can still accumulate points. It also means that spontaneous fucks are rewarded especially on weekends and holidays when we don’t have the kids, and finally that a first date fuck is essential which is the whole point really.
There is a bit of debate about whether bareback can count as double but we have elf’n’safey concerns obviously so don’t want to encourage it but have agreed that in the event of a draw the number or bareback fucks will determine the winner which, again, rewards finding a nice chap during the year.
We also like it because one of us can win with 10 fucks which is about one a month and should be easy.
Any thoughts or suggestions?
We are going to think about it and start on Saturday if both happy.
Anna
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Would you tell him he’s your points bank? 
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I’d give him a little good boy chart with a target so he can watch Avengers when he gets enough points.
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You have certainly put some thought into it and have thought through many of the flaw’s that were discussed. All I would say is “Let the game commence” @anna.michelsburg
It seems things are a bit more complicated.
My friend, let’s call her Sophie, because its her name, has been talking to a friend at work. I have to say, I did not realise that this was a work topic. Anyway.
Sophie feels it might be unfair. She has her little girl all the time whereas mine go to my ex-husband’s, his parents, and my parents. She points out - and I think this is reasonable - that it is possible to:
Fuck a new guy on a Friday night (5 points), fuck him again on Saturday morning (1 point), meet someone new on the Saturday night (5 points) and get fucked again on Sunday morning (1 point) and then fuck the Friday guy again on Sunday afternoon (1 point). 13 points, at least, with scope for more.
She said that we all did this during the previous competition and I could do it again but she couldn’t. I think that is a fair point.
It means I could probably win just over the Summer given that the kids are away for 2 weeks, then 2 other weekends.
So we have some adaptions.
You cannot accumulate more than 5 points (plus bonus points, see below) in one 7 day period unless the first point was the final fuck with someone who had become regular. This seems fair.
The other thing she pointed out is that this is supposed to be about having the kind of fun that you can only have if you are single and that I had been missing out on.
So, she has come up with a bonus point system if you score either a 2 or a 5, so with a new guy. You can score 1 bonus point for each of toys, swallowing, cum on face, bareback, and bumfun. So it is possible to score 10 but he would have to manage to do it all within one 6 hour period, so it can’t be a number of dates, just one horny afternoon or evening.
Plus the other bonus point above.
It feels like it is getting a bit more complicated but it does feel much more sexy and fun and really incentivises kinky casual sex rather than sex for its own sake.
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I’m getting a strong sense of Numberwang
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What does that mean?
I had to search to find out.
I feel old.
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What about quality points for guys with something special i.e size, stamina, recovery, toyboy, v good looking, etc?
Good luck and have fun.
They will all be ‘v good looking’!
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I think if the rules get too convoluted you may lose sight of why you wanted to start playing the game in the first place.
What made the game so much fun when you first played it at uni?
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OMG… I am taken back by this in a fantastic way. I guess I forget that there are still ladies like this out there. Keep up the great work and I love the effort and thought that goes into the scoring. Some guys out there would be happy to get you to the top. Are there bonus points for same-sex encounters or are you strictly into men?
I think you have a wild card point for a sexual encounter of the same sex… that may give her an advantage if she can find another mom who’s kids get babysat while you have your own “playdate”
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Thought the rules were that there’s no rules just fuck 52 ? @anna.michelsburg strange how things change so quickly and it’s not so much a secret 
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It looks like we are on. Starting Saturday 8 AM finishing Sunday 10th July 2022 midnight.
Rules, and I do love a good rules list, as above.
She is very keen to start this weekend which makes me suspicious that she has a child free weekend planned. So, I am also now child free Saturday (its what ex-husbands are for) and I have arranged a post-gym coffee on Saturday morning and will be interested to find out if I still have it.
I don’t think my disheveled post gym, red faced, lycra look works as well as it did when I was 22. But the aching neediness of going home to do my hair and change will be too embarrassing to contemplate.
Also, I have to admit to not having done first date sex in a long time. And certainly not after coffee during the day time.
HEELLLPPPP!!!
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Hi Anna, what a fun steamy challenge! My immediate thoughts were what you already mentioned - practical issues in juggling your schedule with work and being a mom, and then physical safety regarding STIs and whatnot.
Those things aside, I would just be careful that you don’t end up getting too in to the competition and engaging with partners you otherwise wouldn’t have. In other words, sleeping with someone you don’t like in order to bulk up your stats. This could wear you down emotionally/mentally. Also, one night stands can sometimes be amazing but other times the sex can be disappointing, the other person doesn’t know anything about your body so you can walk away feeling let down, which can be emotionally draining (especially if happening week after week!).
But, also sounds like a very fun way to ring in your new single life, to start to explore the dating market again and see where things take you. I wouldn’t worry about having to disclose this challenge to a future husband, your history is your own and you don’t have to share it with anyone you don’t want to. But I hope for your own happiness that you can meet a sex-positive partner who would love to hear all about this challenge 
Be safe and have fun!
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Hi there and welcome! I consider myself very open sexually but have to admit I’ve never heard or thought of such a game. I may be new here but I can vouch for what others have said about no judgement being passed.
On one side I understand you concerns moving forward. I agree with some of the other concerns as far as having sex for the sake of numbers or a game. Seems like that would be a little too forced. On the other hand if you find 100 guys in a year you want to have sex with I say go for it. I guess what I’m trying to say is if it works out it works out, there’s plenty of willing participants.
The next point I’ll make is about kids and life. Obviously those are priorities so to think you can manage like you did while single years ago would be a little optimistic. With that being said and if you covered it my apologies I just missed it. Are you opposed to multiple partners at one time? The “open” portion of me and my husband’s relationship is inviting other men into our lives (me physically, him entertainment and viewing only). Almost exclusively our play time is multiple men at a time.
We have a method we use for new partners that isn’t numbers based for me but could work for you and it makes things really comfortable. Once we get comfortable (respectful, relatively attractive at least, good rapport, no substance abuse which is huge) we talk to them about inviting a friend or two out for drinks or social time. All we ask is that they choose wisely based on what they know and we leave the boring work to them. When we all get together it’s as simple as a yes or no between me and my husband. Arrogance, bad rapport, and any other red flags are immediate dismissals in our mind. If you understand where I’m going the total of guys in play in your life can increase pretty quickly. Just to give you an idea since you brought up numbers as your goal. I’ve developed contact with about 30 guys over the past year that I’m very fond of when it comes to sex. The fondness is not only a level of attractiveness and good sexual chemistry but also friends they bring to play occasionally as well. Don’t get me wrong it’s not 30 at a time. It’s also not like porn group sex either so don’t have that in your mind either. The point isn’t marathon sex and that has to be understood. It’s have a good time but understand there are others around. The sex is great and it’s my preference. However I will say the build up is my favorite part. The most exhilarating sexual feeling I’ve had and have is when a guy or two is kissing on each side of you neck, another probing your ass with their fingers, another rubbing your clit, and your nipples being worked as well. All while wishing you had more than two hands so you could feel how ready they are.
I’ve gone off on a rant but what can I say it’s exhilarating. And lastly I’ll say this. I grew up with three brothers. I love them dearly but have been subjected to and seen the double standard between thoughts of men and women and sex. Do not let yourself be subjected to the societal norms of it being ok for men to have as many sexual partners as they want while women are sluts or whores. If you want to share yourself that’s your business. There’s a great deal of power, pleasure, confidence, and joy to be gained from having sex. Just be safe
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What a great reply @ginnygirl18 your sentiments are bang on. I love your openness. Well said, a super well written reply.
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@anna.michelsburg go for it! Remember Internet safety when dating as there are some weirdos. Always ensure someone knows who and where you are meeting…
How about your challenge friend, be safe
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