I am very pleased to be able to provide an update but also some insights to why this will be so much harder than university.
So, Wednesday was a wfh day and I arranged to meet gym guy for a run which was lovely. By complete accident we met near his apartment and finished at the front door. There was the inevitable invitation to come up for breakfast and the predictable acceptance.
It had been a muggy damp morning and on the way up, entirely innocently, we said we would get showers before. I didn’t think it all through.
He went for his and came out looking rather rugged and tempting with a towel around his waist. Strutting his stuff for sure, but so what.
Time for my shower and I realised at literally that moment, naked, in the shower, that I had nothing to get in to. I decided to ask him for a T-shirt or something but when I got out the obvious thing to do was to copy him, towel around my waist, and walk back in to the kitchen where I could smell some lovely coffee.
The girls haven’t really been out much at all over the last few years but in times gone by I got them out at every opportunity and whilst they are arguably past their best I am still very proud of them and, if I may say, have mercifully benefited from breast feeding.
He was very cool about it but I did detect a slight, self satisfied smirk. We had a very pleasant chat and there was no awkwardness about me being topless but eventually conversation moved on to a more flirty footing.
Without wishing to rush, it wasn’t too long before I was on my knees, in his kitchen, swallowing a yummy load of his cum. I even finished with a “I hope that is better, now?” before getting up and letting him put his towel back on.
We had our breakfast and shortly afterwards I found myself in his bed being properly fucked and it felt wonderful.
A very happy 7 point morning. 5 for the fuck, 1 for swallowing, and 1 for bareback.
The only fly in the ointment was putting my cold, damp, running gear back on to go back to the car. Certainly didn’t think it all through but very pleased with myself.
The children are with their father this weekend and I have a Bumble date this evening. And this is where the problem lies, I have discovered. There is no way I want him staying over here. I am not sure I am ready for overnights in another man’s house/appartment but I am too old for the taxi ride of shame afterwards so I need to work out how to navigate all of that if I fancy a bit of after dinner sex.
And I have continued to text gym guy. Not sure where that is or is not going to end up. I am sure we will have sex again but he and I were both very clear that we were not looking for a relationship.
Thank you for wading through all of that.