Haven’t posted for a while and recently MrsB and I have been talking about ‘stuff’.
Now one of the things that came out of it was that she’d previously had a 69 - something she’s never told me about in over 7 years! We had a child 4 years ago and the bedroom stuff has taken an understandable dive, BUT, we’re looking at ways to jazz it up and get the bang back in…so…
Having never done anything like that before - do any M/F couples have any suggestions or advice on what to do etc? I get the basics of it, but anything to surprise her would be good…
We found it fun to experiment with the position, her lying down me on top, me lying down her on top, both on our sides. I don’t have the strength for us to try vertical lol.
I think otherwise it is the standard things that apply to making oral pleasurable, maybe a shave downstairs, definitely good hygiene and a wash just before, things like extra strong mints for extra sensations
Personally speaking I would not make it to intense or set unreachable goals ! Go for a simple approach and experiment a bit and see where it leads make sure you are both comfortable with giving and receiving oral and remember it’s pleasurable don’t put too much pressure on yourselves ? Good luck and enjoy
Man, 69 is legit my favorite thing to do. Put her on top and just go to town. It’s the only time my wife has squirted even a little which, if you’re into it, is about the sexiest freakin spot for that to happen. Use your hands too; she’ll thank you!
69 is not my favourite to be fair. While I love the view I find it difficult to focus on both giving and receiving when doing oral. Her on top or both lying side on seems to work best though so she can control how deep she goes and doesn’t gag
We 69 rarely. However, Mrs. Val doesn’t like having too much attention on her, so when we feel agile enough, we get it on.
I really like giving her oral, rimming, just generally having my face in her crotch doing various acrobatic techniques. But because I am insensitive and am purely down there for my own personal pleasure, I forget that she is receiving everything I have all at once, and typically it is far too intense for her.
I’m down there like a cat lapping a bowl of milk, forgetting that this bowl has 10,000 nerve endings. I could seriously go at it for hours but she has to tap me on the shoulder to stop as it is too much.
To get excited, she needs to participate. She needs to be stroking me or be involved somehow to be “into it”, thus we will 69 sometimes.
I think I would be many women’s dream as I will stick my tongue into and around anywhere down there and love every second of it with no interest in repayment. It is absolutely my favorite.
When she is sucking my cock while I am giving oral as well, I kind of forget I am being blown… my whole mind is focused on my task and the feeling on the other end seem to be non-existent.
She is also a foot shorter than me so typically this requires a chiropractic appointment if it goes on too long.
I’d take giving her oral or rimming her over anything else we do. I seriously love it so much!
Well, as long as your bodies are a fit you can do various styles depending on how athletic you want to get but don’t pull any muscles.
You can look at positions on here but I’m sure your more than capable of finding them out.
There’s 1 site don’t think I’m been naughty as it doesn’t sell anything, chastise me if I’m wrong but sexinfo101 has loads of positions
@AdamB0509 actually I’m thinking of trying something different, I’d like him to use a mini wand or clit toy or gspot vibrator or …? I also enjoy using the bj helping sleeves on him, they are soo soft and I enjoy him moaning whilst licking his head. Otherwise i haven’t done it in any way in years!!
Valbowski - only a foot difference? I’m 6’6” and my partner 5’1”. 69 and other positions can be a challenge.
Unfortunately my partner doesn’t like 69 very often because she can’t concentrate on me. Too bad because I love 69 because it is a comfortable position and all the skin contact is great. Either on top or sideways - greatest thing since sliced bread.
One possible down side to 69 is if the one receiving oral would like to be also watching a porn film. Why one would want this extra stimulation is curious but I read about a couple with an intriguing idea.
They make their own videos of themselves and can then watch what they are doing while doing it! Great idea especially when you’d like to but can’t see what’s happening. Just when you think you’ve seen or heard it all.
I was about to say I am not sure what porn could possibly be better than my wife’s pussy directly in my face, but that idea you bring up does indeed sound even better. Gonna need to bring this up…
My GF is deathly afraid of any pics/videos going out side our phones, tablets, etc. For good reason too because all her phone and tablet data goes to the cloud. My phone doesn’t so I might see if she’s okay with a video of her down on me - for sure with her face not recognizable. Be nice to have when she’s on a trip.
@AdamB0509 69 is something you must try. There are a range of positions in the link below. I love the classic my OH loves the inverted.
In terms of getting started. I suggest starting slowly working your way gradually into position with some teasing glances of the tongue, relax and enjoy.
So I love to give head in any position possible and I know my partner loves receiving it. However when it come to the 69 I know my partner isn’t to keen, she’s never said why but I don’t think she wants me to cum in her mouth and I’m okay with that.
If we have a good sex session it will nearly always involves some 69 action. When im giving the wife oral and shes getting really turned on she always wants me in her mouth. Plus we find this is a great position for pleasuring all areas and holes of each other at the same time.
It’s absolutely fantastic. I think I actually prefer oral to intercourse, giving and receiving. Don’t go straight for the clit. Tease around her lips and arse hole. Slowly build up and enjoy watching her pussy getting wetter and wetter. I had the inside of my thighs being licked teased before went for my dick, amazing teasing each other at the same time
Having done it many times, it can be awkward and difficult especially if there is a height difference. But take your time, set it up, don’t rush it, and talk to each other to make it fun, be honest!!
but don’t pull any muscles.
whilst licking his head. Otherwise i haven’t done it in any way in years!!
