So after meeting a fellow cross dresser at my local pride event on Saturday I’m going on a date with them on Wednesday.
The problem I have this will be the first time I’ve dressed up “normally” for a date with another cross dresser and have absolutely no idea what to wear
We’re planning to go bowling then dinner and drinks (their choice not mine)
Can you lovely people give me some advice please?
I’m sure @Melody1 will be able to help
You need to wear something you can move in so you can swing your arms to bowl, so nothing too restricive. And a pattern would be better to hide any sweat marks if you’re a sweaty Betty like myself
My pick would be jeans and a shirt or smartish polo shirt but something with a bit of flair
Definitely thinking something not too. Restricting for bowling! Wouldn’t say I’m a sweating person but was thinking a nice summery dress if it’s hot.
Let’s be honest, nothing goes well with bowling shoes
A summery dress would be perfect and the bonus is the breeze you’ll get on your thighs
That was my thought exactly @JoCat just got to go not too short
@Latex73 i do have a Harley Quinn outfit but that’s more for the bedroom
I’m a cross dressing tomboy so for bowling, the go to would be:
Hoody, short shorts, stockings and suspenders, with some cute trainers. . (the rainbow fishnets are from Lovehoney and would also work for bowling)
Thank you @Melody1
I have got some rainbow tights too but I’ve just fake tanned and wanted to show the legs off
Cute trainers with frilly socks was my plan!
Short shorts or mini skirt it is then
@Melody1 think it will have to be
Haven’t been so nervous for a date in years
Thank you for your help x
Be yourself and wear what you feel comfy in
If dressing normally then why not go with some jeans and a nice top… can always wear some lingerie under it if makes you feel more comfortable
Thanks @AJSTAR think after emptying my wardrobe I’ve decided on a lemon yellow midi dress with denim jacket can cute lil trainers with frilly socks
I’m now thinking about underwear and that’s a bigger minefield than the outfit
Fantastic!!! Sounds like you’ve got this all sorted
@AJSTAR I have all except underwear (just in case things go really well )
Due to the dress I’ll need something that doesn’t cause a VPL
If you’re looking for knickers that work under a dress, these are good. Have fun, hope it goes well
Thank you @Kitty-Cat01
I had decent on a thong but these are so cute I’m now undecided (I appreciate the model probably looks 1000x better than me! )
I’ll keep you posted how it goes, very nervous which isn’t normally like me!
So keeping a eye on this good luck
You know I have never been on a first date, first girlfriend well I would only see her at weekends it was just a fun relationship no sex.
Second proper relationship we were friends to start of with well she was a mates sister so it was kind of a forbidden relationship at first alot of sneaking around.
Third relationship silly me got her pregnant before we could be proper and go on a first date.
Thanks @teacake its my first date in a few months so very nervous but will keep you posted
I shall keep my fingers crossed
Thanks @AJSTAR I’ll keep you all posted how it goes