A how to guide to squirting, I hope it helps

ok here is my guide its for everyone hetero, bi,gay, single etc.

its so much fun to try this, just let me know what you think.

rob

How to Make Her Squirt

OK this is my first and hopefully not my last how to, and I decided to do it on this most wonderful of pleasures for a woman (also its a damn good turn on for me and men too seeing my woman squirt god its so sexy), any way this may be a very hard thing to do so I have researched it and come up with this guide I have used a few resources to help me here too, and I will putting the thankyous to those after this piece.

OK where to begin.

The begining I suppose and that will be:

What is squirting?

Its also known as “female ejaculation” or “gushing”, squirting is a fun, sexy, and wonderfully messy side effect of G-spot orgasms.

G-spot what the heck is a G-spot and where do I find it?

All in good time my young padewan.

Now some women who have this kind of orgasm say its so much more powerful, incredibly intense, full body experiences. Many are so overwhelmed by the experience they describe it as “emotional” or even “overwhelming”.

Wow now then how would you like your woman to react like that!

Squirting has not been very popular in the west it has only been quit recent history that it is now recognised. Did you know at one time even doctors tried to help women who cum this way and try to stop it!! Good God!!

But as I said its become ever more prevalent now with porn and the internet but a lot of women think it can not happen to them, OK some women may not gush and squirt madly all over the place but may only trickle out and mix with there own pussy juices. But I will get to more on that later.

OK so what is it? Is it piss?

Well no you might be forgiven if you did mistake female ejaculation for piss but you would be wrong. It’s actually a silky, mucous-like fluid that bears more resemblance to male pre-ejaculate than piss.

So its not piss, so what causes it?

As the G-spot is stimulated by a skilful lover (like me lol and this may be you), the surrounding tissue slowly fills with ejaculate from her prostate gland. As she orgasms, contractions of the pelvic muscle cause the fluid to “squirt” forcefully through the urethra. Fluid volume (and G-spot size) varies in amount from woman to woman.

But I don’t think my woman would be able to do that?

Oh really well its true as I said earlier she may not squirt the length of the room lol (have to see that to believe it lol) but all women do produce ejaculate but that doesn’t translate to squirting orgasms. In many cases for women who don’t forcefully ejaculate, the fluid may be seeping out and mixing with her normal vaginal lubrication. Many women have even trained their bodies to hold back ejaculate as they mistake the feeling for the urge to pee. So I urge you go tto the toilet first. It’s going to be your job to help her get to the point where she’s comfortable enough to let go and allow herself to experience this mind-blowing orgasm.

OK so what and were is this lovely G-spot located?

The G-spot is a small area (about the size of a 10pence if in UK or a quarter if in USA) located approximately two inches inside and on the front top wall of the vagina. During sexual arousal this area swells up to about the size of a walnut and can cause extremely pleasurable sensations (and squirting orgasms) when stimulated.

(copied below from a website as it explain what it could be better than me):

“From a scientific point of view, there are several theories on what the G-spot actually is. Many researches feel that the G-spot is the urethral sponge, a cushion of tissue that sits against the vaginal wall and surrounds the urethra This theory is supported by the fact that that the Skenes glands, which are responsible for female ejaculation, are contained in the urethral sponge. As the G-spot tissue is stimulated, it fills with fluid from the glands, which is then forcefully expelled or “squirted” out during orgasm.

Another theory is that the G-spot is part of the clitoral nerve system, which extends along the vaginal walls and into the body. Both ideas may be correct (and even support each other) since the urethral sponge and the clitoral nerves are closely interconnected.”

So whats it like for a woman to have this?

Well some Women describe G-spot orgasms as very intense experiences. Unlike clitoral orgasms, G-spot orgasms are characterized by:

  • Rolling waves of pleasure
  • Unusually violent vaginal contractions
  • A greater chance for multiple orgasms
  • Squirting orgasms (or female ejaculation)
  • Post orgasm euphoria for up to a half an hour after

Wow sounds good but why are you telling me all this I want to know how to do it?

I am telling you all this as its the best way to know what you are going to do knowledge is power and this is very powerful knowledge indeed.

So lets get started on how to make her squirt shall we I think you have waited long enough don’t you

a few things to remember tho:

Before you get started, let’s take a look at a few things to greatly increase your chances of giving her a squirting orgasm. Some of these might sound like common sense, but squirting orgasms are exciting stuff so it’s easy to forget some of these important preparations:

  • Know your stuff. Before you go hunting the G-spot, it only makes sense to know where it is and how it works. Since you’re reading this site you’re already way ahead of most people. Just make sure you’ve read The G-spot page and know the location and anatomy.

  • Have the right attitude. Putting pressure on her to have a squirting orgasm is the sure-fire way to make sure she doesn’t. So enjoy the ride no matter what, have a sense of humour, don’t be goal oriented, and just basically be cool. She’ll dig you for it and it’ll greatly improve your chances of giving her a crazy, G-spot orgasm.

  • Keep it clean. Not the sex, silly! That should be as dirty as you want. We’re talking about your hands and fingers. Nothing will end the fun faster then catching her sensitive bits with a stray fingernail. Make sure your nails are clipped short, and your hands are squeaky clean.

  • Encourage communication. We’re not talking about a Dr. Phil session here. But it’s extremely important that she knows that she can tell you what she likes. Many women don’t speak up because they are either too shy or afraid of hurting your feelings. Ensure that doesn’t happen by letting her know up front that you encourage feedback.

  • Be aware of the mess. We don’t recommend laying down your expensive silk sheets for this project. You might want to have a few towels handy as well.

  • Have lubrication handy. Even if she’s producing natural lubrication it never hurts to have some handy just in case. Purchase individual lubrication packets if you’re too embarrassed to have a half-empty bottle of lube around.

Very important set the mood:

Women are complicated (yet wonderful) creatures oh yes they are, with constantly changing moods, hormones, and emotions. It can be hard for her to have a G-spot orgasm (or any other orgasm for that matter) if she’s distracted with the worries of the day or just generally not relaxed and in the mood. Here are a few things that can help.

Atmosphere

low lighting, some soft music, and a comfortable, relaxed atmosphere go a long way towards getting the G-spot party started. Also, and I am not suggesting that you both get drunk, but it’s a proven fact that a bit of alcohol can loosen her up. A long bath with a glass (or two) of her favourite wine can speed up the relaxation process emensly.

You need to Get Her Aroused

Note: Foreplay is extremely important for a squirting orgasm. The G-spot won’t even be enlarged and ready for stimulation if she’s not thoroughly aroused.

Start with a sensual massage with lots of oil. This will relax her, get her blood flowing, and help to build intimacy. Massage her entire body for a half an hour or so. Try to stay away from her hot spots if you can (breasts and butt are fine).

She should be getting turned on by now. Amp it up by deep kissing, nibbling her neck, or whatever she really enjoys. Go ahead and stimulate her clitoris with your fingers or mouth until she’s bucking her hips and begging for you inside of her.

OK she’s hot, bothered, and begging for it? Time for the main event!

Firstly, find a comfortable position for both of you. Her lying on her back with her knees bent usually works quite well. You can kneel in between or knees, or sit on either side of her. Make sure you’re both comfortable because you might be staying in this position for a while.

Stimulate the G-spot

OK, here we go. Below are some of the most effective methods to find and stimulate the G-spot. Keep in mind that these are tried and true. But don’t be afraid to experiment and have some fun!

Method 1: “Come” Hither

First, we’ll start with the most basic technique for finding and stimulating her G-spot.

1. With your palm facing up, slowly insert one or two fingers into her vagina about one-third of the way in (or to the second knuckle).
2. You should feel a spot on the front wall of her vagina that is lumpier, rougher, or more ridged than the surrounding area.
3. Start with a gentle “come hither” motion and slowly increase the pressure and speed as the G-spot swells.
4. Find the location and pressure that she likes the most and give her more of it!

Note: When you first start stimulating the G-spot, she might feel slightly uncomfortable or have the urge to urinate. This is a fairly common occurrence, but should soon fade away and be replaced with increasing pleasure.

Method 2: Running Man

If you’re still experimenting with pressure and motion, you may want to try the “running man” method. It’s very much like the first method above, except instead of moving both fingers together you move them separately in a running motion. This doubles the pace of stimulation and also hits both sides of the G-spot. Just keep the pressure firm and the motion controlled…you certainly don’t want her to feel like you’re just wiggling fingers randomly.

Method 3: Window Washer

Run your fingers side to side, like a window washer, over the body of the G-spot. You should be able to notice how the G-spot dips on each side and creates a something like a gutter between the body of the G-spot and the vaginal wall. She may really enjoy this method of stimulation.

Method 4: Hard & Fast

This might sound hilarious but sometimes (depending on how much pressure she likes) your wrists and fingers can actually get tired from stimulating her G-spot. What can we say? Some women like it fast and hard. Simply put your two middle fingers together and bend them in to your palm like you are about to do the “heavy metal horns”. Instead of bringing your thumb in, leave it pointed out and insert just those two fingers with the rest pointing down. This allows you to use your whole arm and shoulder to help move your fingers, all while keeping them perfectly aligned on her G-spot.

Orgasm Time

Initially, it may take more than 30 minutes of stimulation in order for her to have a G-spot orgasm but it’s worth every second.

When she does have one, trust me you’ll know. Her vagina will contract violently, so violently, in fact, that it may feel like she’s trying to push your fingers out. Also, just like a good clitoral orgasm, a G-spot orgasm will cause her to pant and moan loudly. Unlike a clitoral orgasm however, A G-spot orgasm is much more likely to lead to multiple orgasms.

And, of course, a G-spot orgasm may make her squirt ejaculation all over everything. So bring a raincoat! or towel!

Go With It

I mentioned earlier that you should gently work through any initial discomfort she may have. But be sure to consider her feelings and reactions carefully the entire time. Does she want firmer pressure? A little slower? A little faster?

Also, keep in mind that if she doesn’t normally have G-spot orgasms she may not have one on the first try. But if that’s the case, don’t fret. Becoming focused on a sexual “goal” will put unnecessary pressure on her and make it almost impossible for her to have any sort of orgasm.

But with a little knowledge, some patience, and a lot of practice, you’ll be able to consistently give her the most remarkable, mind-blowing orgasms she’s ever had!

So there ya go try it out tonight or tomorrow but believe me there is never a better site than your woman cuming all over you and feeling her squirting over your member hands face etc it is really hot and sexy and God how I wish my woman was here now lol.

Any way I hope you enjoyed this and I hope it helps.

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Wow! I'm sure someone will find it very useful!

Wow, thanks for taking the time to write this out. I can't wait to try it out

Also, if she can't get to orgasm via Gspot alone (like me) u can use the other hand to rub the clit, its just enough to tip over the edge and still give the squirting/full body effect xx

Also, if she can't get to orgasm via Gspot alone (like me) u can use the other hand to rub the clit, its just enough to tip over the edge and still give the squirting/full body effect xx

Also, if she can't get to orgasm via Gspot alone (like me) u can use the other hand to rub the clit, its just enough to tip over the edge and still give the squirting/full body effect xx

Whilst I commend the detail and enthusiasm there are parts of this post that are a bit patronising/iffy.

  • Women are complicated (yet wonderful) creatures oh yes they are, with constantly changing moods, hormones, and emotions. It can be hard for her to have a G-spot orgasm (or any other orgasm for that matter) if she’s distracted with the worries of the day or just generally not relaxed and in the mood. Here are a few things that can help.

Urgh. The complicated thing again. Sexuality is complicated, I would say but neither man nor woman is simple And the 'women are complicated' line is sadly steeped in a history that uses this judgment to justify saying 'well why bother? They're such capricious little things.' and that woman is something that needs to be figured out. Doesn't help the women who are surrounded my candles and soft music and are end up shouting 'Good grief just rub me here already.' And i hope 'touch me and speak to me' isn't too complicated. I hope so. A sex blogger at The Pervocracy put it best when discussing the 'women are complicated' line:

It tells women with sexual dysfunction that they don't have a real problem, they're just being complicated. It reinforces the idea that women don't really like sex that much. It lets guys who've mastered "touch her on the vagina" self-congratulate like they've solved the Unified Field Theorem. And it gives guys who have crappy selfish sex a great excuse--hey, I'd like to please her, but she's so damn complicated!

I know I'm being picky but if you're anything like me, I suspect you'll enjoy how these ideas and exchanges can forward an outlook on things. (part of why the lovehoney forum is so good)

The names given to the techniques are nice in theory but I find it's best just to play it by ear and there's rarely one thing that works every time. Just the position will change what works. Nice ideas to play around with though.

  • Atmosphere

    low lighting, some soft music, and a comfortable, relaxed atmosphere go a long way towards getting the G-spot party started. Also, and I am not suggesting that you both get drunk, but it’s a proven fact that a bit of alcohol can loosen her up. A long bath with a glass (or two) of her favourite wine can speed up the relaxation process emensly.

Have to pipe in here too and say whilst this may work for a woman who has told you so, it's not a great assumption to make. This attitude can put one in danger of seeing women as a gender that doesn't enjoy sex as much and isn't as motivated by the idea of it. Where as a lot of women are happy to be turned on by the idea of a naked man and hard cock alone or simply making out or watching Kung Fu together, whatever. This doesn't fit the 'romantic' image of candles and wine but horses for courses.

Some women also like to wear pony bridles but that's another matter and you see what I'm getting at? Everyone's different but these methods suggest women need to buffered from arousal. Perhaps I am biased because my reaction to candles is 'aw shit, I can't see the goods!'

Soft music? Oh dear, the thought of trying to come to whale music sounds hellish

Whilst it's lovely to strive for an orgasm, it's important not to place too much value on it and enjoy the journey. Some women don't even enjoy it that much or find it painful for various reasons.

Welcome to the forum, look forward to more of your posts.

Tigerlilies wrote:

Urgh. The complicated thing again. Sexuality is complicated, I would say but neither man nor woman is simple External Media And the 'women are complicated' line is sadly steeped in a history that uses this judgment to justify saying 'well why bother? They're such capricious little things.' and that woman is something that needs to be figured out. Doesn't help the women who are surrounded my candles and soft music and are end up shouting 'Good grief just rub me here already.' And i hope 'touch me and speak to me' isn't too complicated. I hope so. A sex blogger at The Pervocracy put it best when discussing the 'women are complicated' line:

I would say, in *this* case, women *are* more complicated than men. Generally speaking of course. Women don't come as easily as men do, because we're not necessarily designed too. Sure many women do but generally speaking it is more complicated (and the post was more aimed at orgasm). If you subscribe to evolutionary theories (that may or may not have been proven but may make sense) men need to ejaculate/orgasm (the 2 can be separated of course but that's a different matter all together) to make babies, women only need to orgasm in order to continue having sex with the partner who made her orgasm and therefore it doesn't need to be as simple/quick as it is for men. Not necessarily saying I'm right, just another perspective.

Tigerlilies wrote:

Whilst it's lovely to strive for an orgasm, it's important not to place too much value on it and enjoy the journey. Some women don't even enjoy it that much or find it painful for various reasons.

And you know I agree with this already!

Adxx

Alicia D'amore wrote:

Tigerlilies wrote:

Urgh. The complicated thing again. Sexuality is complicated, I would say but neither man nor woman is simple External Media And the 'women are complicated' line is sadly steeped in a history that uses this judgment to justify saying 'well why bother? They're such capricious little things.' and that woman is something that needs to be figured out. Doesn't help the women who are surrounded my candles and soft music and are end up shouting 'Good grief just rub me here already.' And i hope 'touch me and speak to me' isn't too complicated. I hope so. A sex blogger at The Pervocracy put it best when discussing the 'women are complicated' line:

I would say, in *this* case, women *are* more complicated than men. Generally speaking of course. Women don't come as easily as men do, because we're not necessarily designed too. Sure many women do but generally speaking it is more complicated (and the post was more aimed at orgasm). If you subscribe to evolutionary theories (that may or may not have been proven but may make sense) men need to ejaculate/orgasm (the 2 can be separated of course but that's a different matter all together) to make babies, women only need to orgasm in order to continue having sex with the partner who made her orgasm and therefore it doesn't need to be as simple/quick as it is for men. Not necessarily saying I'm right, just another perspective.

Tigerlilies wrote:

Whilst it's lovely to strive for an orgasm, it's important not to place too much value on it and enjoy the journey. Some women don't even enjoy it that much or find it painful for various reasons.

And you know I agree with this already!

Adxx

If you make me think of babies next time I'm having sex, so help me Alicia I will spank you. External Media

Good points, I think I think the reason I don't like the complicated description is that a woman can be a bit loathed to say (in more subtle terms) 'I'm not complicated, you're just doing it wrong.' While in the mean time a sweaty browed man is saying 'quite, quite darling but I'm a bit busy doing the 'window washer 2.0'

I think he mentioned this is a series of cuttings from various articles.

I'd liken it to hating the Tories but begrudgingly accepting when they do something right. It's not all accurate, granted, but at least the individual has the chance to sift through bits.

And of course, I agree with most if not all of your wisdom above!

WandA wrote:

I think he mentioned this is a series of cuttings from various articles.

I'd liken it to hating the Tories but begrudgingly accepting when they do something right.External Media It's not all accurate, granted, but at least the individual has the chance to sift through bits.

And of course, I agree with most if not all of your wisdom above!

Ah missed that RLC, so apologise. I leave my comments standing as a more general criticism of certain bits. Great post by the way, I haven't seen something so detailed and lengthy in a while.

Tigerlilies wrote:

If you make me think of babies next time I'm having sex, so help me Alicia I will spank you. External Media

Good points, I think I think the reason I don't like the complicated description is that a woman can be a bit loathed to say (in more subtle terms) 'I'm not complicated, you're just doing it wrong.' While in the mean time a sweaty browed man is saying 'quite, quite darling but I'm a bit busy doing the 'window washer 2.0'

I was wary of pointing out the baby making aspect of sex - evolution is the hot new topic and bandied about with respects to behaviour a lot but it's worth mentioning.

There are negative connotations with complicated and it is worth mentioning! Though hopefully the beauty of this place is, whether women are complicated or not (or men for that matter) it's a great environment to encourage understanding between partners and hopefully demystify any "complications" even if those complications lie with the side who invents complications that needn't exist.

Clarity? Apologies. Brain mush!

Adx

Tigerlilies wrote:

WandA wrote:

I think he mentioned this is a series of cuttings from various articles.

I'd liken it to hating the Tories but begrudgingly accepting when they do something right.External Media It's not all accurate, granted, but at least the individual has the chance to sift through bits.

And of course, I agree with most if not all of your wisdom above!

Ah missed that RLC, so apologise. I leave my comments standing as a more general criticism of certain bits. Great post by the way, I haven't seen something so detailed and lengthy in a while.

That's because *you've* not been around to post them External Media

Adx

Alicia D'amore wrote:

Tigerlilies wrote:

If you make me think of babies next time I'm having sex, so help me Alicia I will spank you. External Media

Good points, I think I think the reason I don't like the complicated description is that a woman can be a bit loathed to say (in more subtle terms) 'I'm not complicated, you're just doing it wrong.' While in the mean time a sweaty browed man is saying 'quite, quite darling but I'm a bit busy doing the 'window washer 2.0'

I was wary of pointing out the baby making aspect of sex - evolution is the hot new topic and bandied about with respects to behaviour a lot but it's worth mentioning.

There are negative connotations with complicated and it is worth mentioning! Though hopefully the beauty of this place is, whether women are complicated or not (or men for that matter) it's a great environment to encourage understanding between partners and hopefully demystify any "complications" even if those complications lie with the side who invents complications that needn't exist.

Clarity? Apologies. Brain mush!

Adx

So excellently put! Sadly it is sometimes more fun and attractive to people seeking sex advice (not that the above isn't useful) to seek out orgasm recipies when 'communication' is still the best tip ever.

RLC you may like to check out the squirting thread where people report their experiences. It's fascinating and the the common links that crop up are fascinating.

Oh Lord, I just remembered that video of that guy talking about 'squirting dimples' and the girl in it looked out of her tree. I recall a dream catcher on the wall too............

Tigerlilies wrote:

Oh Lord, I just remembered that video of that guy talking about 'squirting dimples' and the girl in it looked out of her tree. I recall a dream catcher on the wall too............

Hahah, oh yes, I remember that guy.

I believe the video is still available on a certain popular torrenting site under the title 'Body Massage and Squirting Orgasms'. Accidentally chanced upon it once while looking for massage tutorials... odd stuff.

xx

hi all thanks for the comments, tigerllilies i didnt mean whale music good god no that would be awful ok now i am imagine anykind ofsex with whal music and i am shuddering lol.

but any type of soft music that would get her in the mood so to speak lol,

i allso encourage open communication, and not to put pressue on the woman, communication to see if things are working or not and not to put pressur as that is a bigg no no in any kind of situation.

plus this is just meant as a guide only not the be all and end all of howto do, every woman is diffrent and also every man is diffrent but it should give ideas to people to give it a try at least.

as i know i lovegiving my gf a squirting orgsm it really does feel sexy and hot while thrusting and it sprays all over you.

i agree maybe complicated isnt the best word to use an i do apologise if that has given any offence, all i was meanng is that compared to men and sex for a woman to enjoy it there is a lot more involved.

damn she is not coming to my house till next week lol

Great to have all the information in one post :D shame its easier said than done!!!

Actually, I think we "are" more complicated in this respect, and I agree that there are relatively few men who will take the time to work out what works for a woman. Perhaps "complicated" isnt the word; "interesting" maybe? In the sense that there is no formula; what works for one woman wont work for another and it could be viewed as a lot of fun to figure out what works for whomever you're with.

But I personally don't take issue with rlc321's use of "complicated" .

Whatever you want to call it, kudos to rlc321 for making it his mission in life to please his GF - she's a lucky girl :). And if, as a result of the ideas he's given me I ever get to experience this wonderful new world I'll be very a happy woman, and perhaps slightly less complicated

Off to check out the squirting thread.....

all sounds good, but i don't need it. *shines nails and rubs them on his shirt*

I can make my wife squirt whenever i feel like it (well almost lol)

quite often it's through clitoris and nipple stimulation only.

she enjoys it when i go for it, then sign that i intend to is when i pick up the towel. lol