I’m looking for some tips and tricks with how to get back into doing anal. I have some toys and some kind but just wondering on everyone’s ideas of how to make it more fun and more enjoyable. Thank you!
Lots of lube and then some more lube :)
Looking at a few more tips and tricks then just more lube ha I want to be able to wear butt plug more often and not just in the bedroom and also what’s best way to be able to have anal sex and really enjoy it come on girls help me out here
Get a vibrating butt plug and if you are a guy a prostate massager will improve things got you. Also buy plenty of lube and then some more 😂
Get a vibrating butt plug and if you are a guy a prostate massager will improve things for you. Also buy plenty of lube and then some more 😂
I am female and right ok is that something you use in public or only at home ?
I am female and right ok is that something you use in public or only at home ?
Any help girls would be so useful
Here are some helpful guides:
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/blog/2018/08/06/first-time-anal-101/
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/blog/2019/01/30/which-is-the-best-anal-toy-for-people-with-vaginas/
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/blog/2018/08/02/magic-wands-for-anal-sex/
It's not something I know about firsthand, but the general advice it to start small, go slow, and don't skimp on the lube. If you've not done it for some time then you may have to start at the beginning again. I think even if you're used to bigger toys a warm-up with smaller ones is usually beneficial too. Once you're comfortable you can scale-up, but don't go too big too fast.
Oil and silicone based lubes are meant to be good as they last longer/don't dry out as fast, which is good if you want to wear a plug out and about for a longer amount of time. Though reapplying lube may also be necessary depending on exactly how long. Some lubes don't play well with some materials, but I believe both can be used with glass, metal, and silicone (silicone lube can be used with silicone toys if the silicone of the toy is premium quality. If unsure do a patch test on a small, unimportant section).
And make sure to lube inside yourself as well as the toy, as your bum can squeegee it all off when you insert, and then it's all on the outside where it's not going to be as useful. 🙂
Another thing to look out for is the neck-size versus the base. You don't want one that's going to disappear while you're on the bus to work. 🙂 And you also want one comfortable enough to sit on if you're going to be at your desk all day.
Hopefully someone else can come and flesh this out a bit more. 🙂
Thank you for your help. My boyfriend loves giving anal. He loves going out on a day out knowing that my bum is full of a anal toy that he has bought me. I just wanted some tips of how to really enjoy it being inside for a long period of time, although things like bending over can be extremely difficult with a toy inside as it could slip out. Thank you for the help everyone!!
I also don't have direct experience of wearing plugs for longer duration, but I'd recommend one with a t-bar or flat sided base for comfort (the round bases press on the cheeks)
Perhaps something like this:
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=40886
Flexible materials and a slightly smaller size than your maximum are also going to make you more comfortable when you're moving around and bending to sit or whatever, I'd say.
Happy hunting!
Get a set that increases in size. And there is no such thing as too much lube. Use some kind of toy on yourself while he is having anal with you. Works for the wife
Also important to be in the right state of mind and relaxed.
Steel butt plugs and silicone with jiggle balls are fun to wear throughout the day. My phone won't let me add links for you but both types are sold by LH
Do you often wear plugs In public do you ? How’s it feel when u sit ? And what do u tend to wear with them
Sounds good advice so you recon I could wear one for the day I work in a office so is a lot of sitting down but also some walking and travelling to work what’s best outfit do you tend to wear knickers ? And how often u relube
Thank you very much for all your advice I have worn plugs before while having sex and do like it and is fun just want to love anal as much as normal sex the tips in public sound very good and useful so a glass or metal plug is best ? How long do u tend to wear yours ? And where do you wear yours ? And do u just wear jeans or u go to next thing to wear and see the risk ?
Also alicia4eve do u have something I can privet messge u on as think u be a great help to me but hard to ask some things on here
Aw yeah just would be great if could ask some questions direct and what do you mean just reveal it as not your real identity tell me what u mean and might worth doing what most u done and worn or wel not worn in public with a toy