I think there’s a few factors about weather you keep your fantasy a secret or not.
The fantasy, would it involve a 3rd person?
It would also depend on how willing your partner is.
For me, I always wanted a woman to squirt in my mouth, i finally told me fiancée about it after 2 years. I get these crazy urges for my partner to “let go” when she needs a wee giving her oral (not done any yet however my O/H has finally agreed to try it (thank to the feedback from members on here)
Now, I’d happily help fulfil any fantasy my missus had except… inviting another man for A 3sum. If that was her fantasy I’d rather not know lol.
I’m slowly progressing with my wife and my fantasies. We’ve only been openly talking for a few weeks.
It feels like every night together and every conversation things get opened up more. Still I’m a long way from saying everything.
I consider myself 100% straight, always have. I got her a newer larger vibrator and for some reason I put in my mouth for a second mimicking a blow job.
Straight away my wife pounced saying “why did you do that”, later that night she said if I wanted she’d but the vibrator in my ass if I wanted.
Not sure if I awakened something in her but I feel she might have some fantasies too.
I feel I’m the most open speaking about it but I have a feeling she may have more hidden fantasies that I ever thought.
Yeah it was, we went through a rough patch but got through it, we talked a lot about everything, including our sex life, we talked about a lot of different things, and then spent a lot of money on lovehoney! Our sex drawer turned into a huge sex box, and we keep on adding to it!
Had a dream the other night I was a professional Dominatrix live in submissive and she made me wear a maid outfit (cross dressing not a huge fantasy albeit not a turn off either). Was so horny when I woke up and kept dreaming about it.
Wouldn’t ever tell my OH and as far as living it out, obviously not. Not whilst we’re still together which I hope is for ever.
To be spanked by my mother in law , in front of my wife and sister in law …( variations include, wife spanking me in front of her friends)
I think its best to keep that one to myself lol
3 some, her being f***ed by another bloke while she bjs me. After he cums inside her then it’s my turn. Something now I’ve written this I think I might just ask her. I wouldn’t have dreamed before. This forum is opening up sex life and has already helped fix at least one thing.
I very much doubt she’d go for it though.
Also pegging, would like her to do it but could never ask her that.
Similar story to me.
Although she say’s yes to must things but anal. I do think she should give it a chance though, I’d never try to push her in to it though.
Hopefully given time.
Yes even more similar here then because OH is a no to anal.
I might pluck up the courage to ask her but pretty sure it’ll be a resounding no!
Then there is finding a suitable man and the issue with where to do this?
I think it’ll remain a fantasy and probably best that way.
My husband has no idea about my fantasies involving Cillian Murphy
Mine are bordering on becoming maladaptive daydreaming, which I seem to use as a distraction to boredom and stresses of everyday life. On the plus side, they have enhanced my horniness, so husband gets the benefits
None of my play partners are into two of my kinks with paddles/canes and tickling/feet so that’s one that I generally keep quite quiet. No kinkshaming from them, just I know I’d be going nowhere saying I like tickling or very heavy impact, aha.
My fantasy would be to make love, have sex with a woman with a penis. The thought of having sex with a beautiful woman with a penis drives me crazy. Porn shows it all the time, but I don’t know how common it is or to actually do it. A cross dresser is also a fantasy, I think about it way too much and masturbate thinking about it. Just wish it could happen one day.
I would love him and his friend to fuck me. He knows ive had a threesome but i havent told him about this because it’s exactly that: a fantasy. He had made it clear he wouldnt want to “share”, plus trying to please one person is difficult enough, let alone 2
I had a fantasy for years about being spanked and jerked off in front of a mirror while sucking a dildo attached to the 3 way mirror. Amazingly, I had the courage one day to express my desire to my OH and it happened. It was great, the spanking was with one of those wooden paint mixers, sorry Lovehoney, it worked. But the dido up my anus did the trick, bought from you .
