Any films/tv to watch with your partner to get them in the mood?

Are there any films that have a hidden graphic sex scene? My wife has said she won’t watch porn
(Although I have one I think she’d enjoy).
Even though she won’t say it I do think she gets turned on by sex on screen.
Are there any films with a strong sexual undercurrent that I could play off as not realising myself? Ideally actually a good film as well.

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365 and Sex Life on Netflox have plenty to watch. One that I benefitted from with the wife was Bridgerton

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If you want it to be more subtle then a few series like You, The Witcher and Game of thrones have plenty of saucy scenes and as previously suggested 365, sexlife 50 shades movies as well although these aren’t to everyone’s taste but could fit the bill.

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My OH likes “cumshot” porn. I’m blessed she will watch it with me so I put on cumshot compilations for her. It is something that will work for her I’m pleased to say.

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My wife like when I show her some lesbian porn or femdom porn that gets her in the mood instantly.

@benzooki tv and movies are never going to be full on perhaps suggesting Bellesa - Porn for women might be an option.

In terms on tv and movies Sex life, MILF and 50 shades of grey movies also Bridgerton certainly does it for my wife.

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The only really naughty films I’ve watched with the wife was the 50 shades trilogy and 365 date. She isn’t into porn so needs to be just the right level.

50 shades was a curiosity watch it, enjoyed it mainly for the bad acting and storyline. But the sex scenes got us going. Wife got some jiggle balls as a result too. It’s probably a good starting point and there’s 3 to watch. Not that intimidating and you can enjoy it as ‘so bad they’re good movies’ in they’re own right. Got us talking about anything that we liked or turned us on.

365 she saw a load of hype about when it first came on Netflix and stuck it in one Tuesday evening. I was like ‘woo hoo she’s horny mid-week sex for me’. At the end she turned it off said that was terrible and went to bed. The undercurrent of that film is pretty dark so not surprising it turned her off.

So definitely needs something fun and more than the sex scenes.

Would also love some recommendations for movies like the 50 shades trilogy, it was just right for us to watch together and haven’t really found much else similar. Something about sex with some light Dom/Sub content some good sexy scenes but enough of an actual story that you don’t feel like your watching porn. Also anything with a good sexy pegging scene, I’m trying very hard to get her onboard with that at the moment!

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Witcher season 2 can’t be far away. Need to rewatch season 1 with the missus. I don’t mind if she drools over Henry Cavill and pretends I’m Geralt of Rivia if it gets me laid. I’ll close my eyes and think of Jeneffer! :joy:

Season 2 confirmed for December 13th it’s already on the calendar :joy:

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Ghost

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Oh nice planning to watch Sex Life and 50 shades, how were they? We also want to watch Nymohomaniac. I think the Witcher gets Mrs.Rocky in the mood lol

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@Fantasy69 welcome to the forum.
Great question, will keep an eye on the answers.
We also watched sexlife but haven’t seen 365 days.

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Hi @Fantasy69 , Try Dark Desire on Netflix
Or film wise try 9 Songs or Below her Mouth if you can find them amongst the usual streaming platforms :ok_hand:

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Film wise i quite like Bound, one of the Wachowski siblings early films before The Matrix. It’s a good story and very erotic.

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We’ve been re-watching Outlander on Netflix. It was one of my wife’s favorite book series and we watched it all as it came out, went back to season 1. It’s first and foremost a sort of swashbuckling historical fantasy romance, but there’s a lot of good sexiness throughout. If you come for the sex, you’ll get sucked into the story - I almost guarantee it.

TW that as it is set in darker times past, the threat of sexual assault and depictions of such (as well as general violence) are more prevalent than would be desired, and there’s been much discussion elsewhere about how these scenes and storylines can be problematic. What we enjoy especially in re-watching the series is that we do get to skip episodes that are too much for us in that regard.

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I wouldn’t class Nymphomaniac as a ‘turn-on’ film. Its actually quite dark and depressing in places, as is the sequel.

You may be better off looking for couple friendly porn online. :wink:

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We are currently watching You Me Her … it’s about a thruple …

Just started watching and hard to not think of her as Nancy from Peep Show

The LH blog has a list of the highest rated “steamy / intimate / romantic” shows and films on Netflix — Sex on Netflix: Where in the world is Netflix the steamiest?

( I personally haven’t seen any of them, but thought I’d pass along the list :+1: )

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I found American Horror Story: Hotel to be a bit of a turn on, the series was dark and sexualised throughout, Lady Gaga as the Countess was a huge turn one, she was dressed so beautifully and sexy as a dominant woman, there are times it ‘goes a little far’ but there are some scenes that didn’t even involve sex that were quite something!

I watched Nymphomaniac Volume I and II years ago, it is quite dark and the first one is artsy, never did anything for me.