Same! And my husband thought women could multi task i just get carried away and forget im suppose to be joining in.
I’m one of the lucky ones who’s OH loves to suck cock (and balls.) She’s amazing at it! If she has a gag reflex, I’ve never seen it. One of our favorite positions is her laying on her back on our bed with her head hanging over while I stand with my dick in her mouth. The deep throating in this position is unreal!
I love to eat her pussy. If she’s feeling confident (just out of the shower, wearing a sexy outfit) she’s into it and very appreciative. Cums every time. If it’s a spontaneous thing and she’s feeling unsure of herself, she declines. An understandable position.
I give my wife oral 98% of the time. The other 2% is because she refuses to let me do it. I love giving her oraI and would give her oral every time and even after sex, but she doesn’t want it. She rarely gives me oral and if she does there is a condom on to prevent her from tasting cum. Plus if she gives me a blow job she doesn’t get a penis in her and that is her preference.
Do you not feel sad that you give your wife oral but she is reluctant to give you a bj, especially if you like bj?
It’s the other way around for us. My partner gives me lots of blowjobs and has always enjoyed it and found it a turn on. However, she doesn’t let me go down on her. In fact it’s been 10 years since I last gave oral. I really miss it and used to find it so incredibly hot. If anyone wants to be selfless and let me fulfil my passion…
My ex.
It may or may not be a contributing factor to why she’s my ex.
My wife though…well she gives the best I’ve ever had.
(Closely followed by a guy when I was younger.)
I also love to go down on her, having oral as a good hearty meal is a great diet.
Love a good bj, and get 1 most times i ask,sometimes she offers…
I do give her oral, but she’s not that into it, where as i get off on giving her oral…
69 is my favourite position
I think it will be nice if both people not only got pleasure from giving oral but also from getting oral and I think that’s an important part of any relationship as you need to be able to satisfy the person as well as the other person satisfying you.
Would anyone go the extra mile to satisfy their partners needs even though they themselves don’t really get much from it say for for example a blowjob
I “lick” my wife out af least once a month see doesn’t ask for it and doesn’t say she likes it but never refuses and from her reaction she loves it. She hasn’t given me a blowjob for over 10 years but Iam fine with that I’d cum to quickly and would ruin rest of night anyway
It’s been a long, long while since I went down on my OH, I do enjoy it, seeing them climax, grabbing my head, seeing their nipple’s get super hard as they come.
She rarely returns the favour, and I really, really fancy something different to just me masturbating
There’s always Fleshlights, strokers and imagination
Strikers sir? I should imagine that’s the complete opposite of what one wants, but you do you I guess
@JGood yeah, I splashed out on this last year:
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/p/blowmotion-warming-vibrating-male-masturbator/80097.html
and it’s good, but I’d like my OH to have the will to give me a go
I understand you plight and sympathise
Thank you for being my proof reader it has been amended. And definitely not the intended phase.
Although not intended it does realise the point. Maybe your wife just needs to be put over your knee @TPete and a firm hand to guide. I jest, your situation is more complex and delicate than that.
With me, without me sir
Such utter BS. Going by that logic, there’s no point going to a Michelin starred restaurant because you can satisfy your hunger “just the same” with a fast food joint.
Surely oral is for experiencing together.??
I have always given BJ’s and love receiving a good licking. 69 is such a great way to have foreplay.
Maybe some people have a bad experience that puts them off? What excites me is the intimacy of it & the control aspect. I enjoy receiving oral & I know my OH really loves giving it because I enjoy it. I like giving, mainly as he enjoys it, but I also like the control & way he reacts to me, which is very hot! The Lovehoney flavoured lubes are also game changers - we both highly recommend them!
Thats unusual. I love making my wife cum with my tongue.
Shame she isn’t in to it.