As a woman I talk to my female friends about sex but my husband does not
We both enjoy sexual play - spanking/ pegging/ oral / anal - I discuss ways and methods with a close number of female friends and we share techniques/ methods and stories but my husband would never….
Is it me or is it a man / woman thing
Maybe he doesnt speak to his friends about pegging because he is worried about what they might think. I think most men talk about sex with their friends but not something like that.
We dont do pegging and my husband hasnt got many friends but he would not talk about pegging with them. I believe one is gay so i dont think he would bring the subject up as he might get the wrong idea.
We talk about all sorts of sexual things to establish our likes and hard boundaries.
I have tried to talk to my sister as her partner has ed but she gets embarrassed when i suggested she gets herself a rabbit so i dont have anyone else i can talk to about these things.
In my experience Men (once they have matured) don’t talk about their sex lives.
When I was single again in my mid 30s and me and my mates were enjoying being single again, we never discussed our sex lives.
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I work in an pretty much all male dominated environment
Even though I partake and truly enjoy pegging.. and much more! I would never seriously bring it up as a topic for real enjoyment or what we did at the weekend
It’s just not the kind of place where the dust would ever settle on that, just something to joke about
I have a small group of close friends (male and female) and we’ve known each other more than 30 years. We have never talked about sex in detail.
I probably say a little more than they do but I’ve never managed to get an actual conversation from them on the subject.
That is entirely their right, and I don’t make assumptions about what they may get up to behind closed doors. 
As a man I never speak to my friends about me and my wife’s sexual activities. My wife in the other hand has with close friends.
As a guy, I do have one of my cousins who knows, but we don’t really talk about it, and that is mostly by his choice, and my sister in law knows that my OH and i don’t have traditional sex,
if she ever came out and was curious, we would tell her.
But like the guys I work with or our neighbors.
I’m good without them knowing
I don’t think it’s a pegging thing, I just think that most men don’t really talk about sex to friends
I do not consider failing to openly talk is toxic - it can be just a male / female thing … after discussing with my husband he just feels it’s awkward as role reversal can be considered as wrong in many peoples eyes …
To me he is perfect .. respect!
I wouldn’t say we don’t talk about it. We just don’t go into vivid details.
Wife never talks to anyone about sex….
I work in construction so very ‘macho’ attitude….i discuss sex with a few guy friends…but rarely into specifics….and haven’t gotten any friends who are open minded enough to share details with…
I would never tell my friends, but my gf has pegged me, we have videos of it on my phone, so sexy and hot, forget all the porn shit you see online, in person it’s erotic and loving
I think as long as you talk to each other why should you talk to anyone else if you dont want to. At the end of the day the most important people in the relationship are you and your oh.
I reckon most straight men wouldn’t mention it to their friends as they won’t want to come across as gay or look less manly to the rest and get the piss taken out of them 
I’m just not into anal sex at all I don’t want my husband performing anal sex on me and I don’t want to pegged my husband with a strap on. Because that’s just not my cup of tea. But to each their own I guess.
This. Spot on.
In my male circle of friends (and no doubt other guys could relate), pegging is only brought up as a derogatory towards someone else, and never as a genuinely alternative sexual activity. This is probably due to a continuing stigma among males, but as generations progress I hope this changes.
For my part, I will discuss it with my female friends quite openly as women seem to be so much more open and tuned into their feelings. The guys I know are too “blokey-bloke” or are threatened by the mere thought of pegging.
I think a lot of straight blokes think that its something that you only want if you are gay or bi so its a taboo subject. We have talked about it but he said nothing is going near his arse.
I don’t talk about it with my friends about sex but my wife does with some of her female friend.
Some real close friend know we aren’t doing more than only traditional sex. They don’t know about what is happening in our bedroom.
But my wife have mentioned that we like using a buttplugs in our asses during sex. But she haven’t talked about my to collection of strapon/dildo’s and buttplugs in varsious sizes and shapes. The also don’t know I like it bigger than average.