And yet the funny part is most of them all probably get pegged or enjoy some bum fun unknown to each other 
@AJSTAR - too true all of my girlfriends in a male / female relationship have openly mentioned that their man enjoys wearing their knickers
Most say their men enjoy being spanked sexually and a few enjoy pegging
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Think thereās quite a lot of taboo subjects when it comes to guy talk around sex and stuff 
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Male here and have never discussed pegging with anyone as I donāt do it. As a young man we wouldnāt discuss sex but comments would be made about getting a bit or how you would like to have sex with a certain person. I have a more diverse group of friends these days and there is only one who makes regular makes comments like that now. Donāt really discuss sex with anyone but my partner.
I think men have a tendency to take the piss, tease, embarrass, bully; women are much more likely to be supportive and would actively avoid doing this. Thatās probably why men generally donāt talk about things they perceive as āsensitiveā and women are more comfortable doing so - the results are less likely to be negative.
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When Mrs LC and I first got together some 12yrs ago, sex was fantastic, so I started buying lingerie and toys.
One of the toys was a strapless dildo and she did say āIām going to f*ck you with that one dayā
Still waiting!!!
In answer to the question, I donāt have anyone I can discuss it with, especially male. But, having said that, I have known a very open, sexual lady for over 20yrs and she would be the only one I could open up toā¦over a few drinks!
None of our current friends, some of them lifelong, have the slightest clue about our sexual activities and I would never dream of talking about them with any of them.
In the distant past I did have a lady work colleague who was sexually open and I did discuss things with her but at that time I was very vanilla. We did turn into FWBās later and she opened my eyes to some kinks.
Omg - just do it .. please approach the subject today ā¦
My husband did this years ago ā¦ it started with him over the table and I remember I was spanking his bum because he had been naughty and he had been wearing my knickers ā¦ he then said while bent over he had very naughty dreams and so I asked what about (usually its face sitting or me sucking his cock) but he said he dreamed I was fucking him up the ass with a strap on dildo ā¦.
I said we need to do that ā¦. And the rest is history
Donāt waste your life not experiencing anal pegging
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I couldnāt talk to male friends, but have a close relationship with my cousin (female) and have opened up to her about my experiences with guys and CDās.
She in turn has now intrusted me with her secrets
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Do tell!!!
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Iāve never really spoke about my sexual experiences with my wife. Past experiences maybe, but never current. I like to keep my current relationship secret.
Iāve never told anyone about how I love to get fisted, or pegged, which Iāve only ever done with my OH. We brought out the demons in each other.
I may have brought up a passing comment ādonāt knock it till youāve tried itā with a finger in the bum or something like that, I think most men enjoy that, but theyāre really not that open to jump from a finger to a fist or a 12inch dildo with 7.5/8 inch circumference. They donāt know what theyāre missing out on. One reason why I enjoy chatting on here. Most men would label pegging and fisting as gay I think, and would most definitely take the piss out of us pegging receivers. However if a mate opened up to me about getting pegged if he was genuine Iād probably Iāve been pegged in the past once or twice, Iād never mention I currently participate.
As of the OH Iām really unsure what she discusses with her friends, Iām sure she will probably say weāre very active and itās amazing and things like that. However how and what we get up to I think thatās a private matter.
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I think you are right @Mr.MrsW , I think ass play is great and a perfectly legitimate part of sex/play. It should not be taboo and strongly feel it is perfectly fine for solo M, MF relationships as well as MM ones. This is why this forum is so useful. Labels are not at all helpful
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100% @CandB_Toy_Story its not taboo what so ever. Just because some people have kinky relationships doesnāt mean they have to be labelled. Theyāre probably either having kinks of their own and are afraid to express. Or thy lead a very boring sex life that is just ordinary smash a grab job.
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Totally agree @Mr.MrsW labels are so unhelpful and negative
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I just love coming onto this forum to express my sexual desires without me or the OH getting judged for our sexual kinks. Itās amazing for that.
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@Mr.MrsW , same here. Your sexual kinks will most likely to be shared by others
Just recently, in a very frank and open discussion, we opened up to another couple about everything we do including pegging.
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How did that turn out? Did thy have the same interests?
@rockstar - how is it going with you and your wife.. I hope things are getting better
Itās not fully sorted by any means but we have a workable arrangement.
Basically were waiting until she works out exactly what she wants from this relationship.
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