Are you the dominated? Or the dominant?

I personally like being both, i guess depends on what kind of mood i am in that night. I can either dominate you and make you submit to me in every way. Or the next night i can be on my hands and knees waiting to be told what to do. I love it. I love it all. What do you prefer? And how do you like to dominate your SO or how do you like to be dominated? All kinks welcome!! :face_with_hand_over_mouth:

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Both please haha :slightly_smiling_face: :upside_down_face: :slightly_smiling_face:

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Being dominated. Cuff me to the bedstead , blindfold on , slap my pretty *ss

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I’m the sub for sure

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Yes me to!!! Gotta have best of both worlds

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I cant lie i like being the sub alot at times. But dominating my SO is a huge turn on for me!!

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Both, but definitely prefer sub. Giving someone else complete control over me and my body? :fire: :hot_face:

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Sounds lovley!!! Im all for the spankings :innocent:

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Agree!!! I know what my plans are tonight. Got a new swing to test in the mail today. Im defiantly looking forward to being tied up blind folded and teased! Come on bed time!!

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Haven’t had the opportunity to test out a swing, but would absolutely love to be left in one for a few hours!

I prefer being dominated for sure. I like the passion when he comes in and presses me up against a wall, doing what he likes with me, ‘forcing’ me to give him oral, giving me a spanking, until finally I’m allowed to cum.

Having said that, when the occasional mood strikes me, I’m more than happy to tie him him up, and tease him until hes begging to be untied. That doesn’t happen so often though. I think becaise I’ve put on quite a lot of weight over the years and just don’t feel as sexy as I used to, so it’s harder to put myself in that role.

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Its my first one as well!! Ill keep ya updated pn how it goes :smirk:

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Aweee when your feeling less confident girl thats when you gotta give them orders, be the dominant and get that confidence up by being a bad B*itch i know for a fact that’ll get your man in the mood nice and quick. But i know the feeling actually ive been down and out the past few months my self and gotta get that confidence back and show my man im going to get my groove back and my sassyness for that summer time attitude. Lift your head up doll!!!

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Sexterminatrix has had a few very toxic relationships, so I’m more than happy to be sub for her, to balance the power scales and allow her to control that aspect of our lives. I’m more than happy to oblige, and she loves the feeling of control and the trust I have placed in her. It works for us.

Being the dominant one has never aroused me. Getting done though is amazing, not necessarily beat up but being ordered what to do, slapped a bit, peed on is amazing

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I’m definitely the sub, and love being dominated by my master.

I love being at his mercy, being under his control, having me him taking control over me and my body.
When we’re doing foreplay, he’ll control my orgasms. If he’s using toys on me and I’m getting close, he’ll take away the toy and deny me my orgasm. Or when I’m using the toy myself, he’ll tell me to move the toy, if I don’t he’ll spank me really hard with the riding crop.

Tying me up with rope or tying me down to the bed, either with rope or cuffs. He’ll have the slapper paddle, crop and flogger laid out, me laid on the bed, blindfolded and cuffed. Waiting in anticipation for my punishment.
‘Forcing’ me to perform oral on him, spanking me until I submit to him.
Or he’ll oder me on my knees and force himself into my mouth, talking dirty to me.
Even being peed on by him.

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I’m a sub at heart, though I haven’t had many opportunities to act on it. But when I have, I loved being tied up and controlled. Not that into pain though, unless it’s very minor. And I’ll always pick bondage porn over any other. All my fantasies revolve around those themes as well. I can’t imagine dominating anyone sexually. I think it would be a big turn-off if someone asked me to. But in real life (where sex is not involved) I definitely want my own way.

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For 45 years I was the dominant partner in our marriage but for the last couple of years I’ve been really enjoying taking on the submissive role.

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Both, love to dominate my wife sometimes. But giving her full control even more, being her sl*t is so hot when she is giving my ass a proper workout and telling me to clean up my mess from her boobs.

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Yup I’m the same too and think it keeps things exciting as never know what I’ll do next lol :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

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