So, i dont really know if this is the place for it, and i cant find any other threads mentioning this but you guys are all lovely supportive and honest so who better to ask
So here goes, as you've probably guessed, we want to have another baby some time very soon (WOOOP!) but heres the thing, sex is now just to make a baby, the best position, the right time of the month, making sure the sperm is being shot in the right hole (Haha) and its turning in to a job. It also doesn't help that while the OH would like a baby "at some point" im desperate, to the point of tears when i come on, and my seduction method now is "Honey im ovulating" and the like. sexy huh?
I know i need to chill my beans and let it happen in its own time, but during this time we (maybe just i actually) need to have sex just for the sake of having fun again, its causing arguments, which are causing less sex which is making the chances of concieving less, and so on. its a vicious circle and all my own fault, i've turned in to a baby mad hormone fuelled nutter a lil bit and i need to sort it.
So, opinions? (be harsh if u like) have you been through the same thing? or have you been in the oh's position? xxxx