thanks for all your fab advise guys, after having an "OMG i think im preg" moment last month its really put things in perspective, as far as im aware im not yet (cue the slowest 2 weeks of my life) but the other half is suddenly massively excited that theres a chance i could be, so now we are both looking forward to a new baby hopefully some time soon, its taken stress off me especially as i know we are both on the same wavelength....so watch this space :) xxxx thanks again xxxx
Whooo! I hope one turns up soon! (obviously not just on your doorstep)
goshness that would be odd wouldn't it. how ever at least i ouldnt have to push the bugger out, although i quite like being pregant haha
I can give the male perspective on this as Mrs H and I have been through exactly what you describe. It does get very wearing for the man when his partner has scheduled sex to coincide with ovulation and it also takes a great deal of spontaneity out of your sex life. Sometimes you just want sex because you want sex, not to make babies and there was a time when I got quite annoyed at having to know the right time of the month etc.
My wife has now been pregnant three times all of which ended in miscarriage. The first two ended in the first and second months and that was fairly easy to bear as any pregnancy before the end of the first trimestre could fail. The third miscarriage was harder for both of us as it was right at the end of the first trimestre and we were starting to talk about scans, and being a typical bloke, I was looking at all the great toys kids can have now!
Having gone through all that we now don't worry about the 'right time' and simply have sex when we feel like it. This leads to relaxed sex as the pressure for me to perform on command is removed and my wife usually end sup having a pretty good time. At least, that's what she tells me!
H
External Media I hope things work out how you want H. It's one of the saddest things I think people must go through. My genuine best wishes.
