Hey guys been a while since I posted. Looking for some advice. My husband and I are loving the idea of someone watching us fuck but we don’t know where to start. Any advice on this eventually I do think the goal is to allow someone to join in but we want to start small and see how comfortable we get. The idea of watching another couple and been watched really turns me on
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Swingers club would be my best guess, others on here have the experience and will chime in I’m sure. Good luck on your adventure, sounds amazing…
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We’ve been watched a few times before and definitely looking for more 
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I am sure that will not be a problem @Hornycouple75 i’m sure either a swinging club or a swinging site would find the people for you.
I would try and find a sex/swingers club, this could be miles away from you or local to you depending on how you feel. Initially you don’t have to swing but could have sex with other members watching. @lee.d.32
Yeah we have talked about clubs
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We were more thinking online at first ???
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Interesting, I haven’t done this but I would definitely pick a reputable club over online. The experience of being there in person surrounded by people enjoying watching you seems much more erotic to me than online and, more importantly, much safer. The clubs (good ones) have excellent security, no one can touch you without your express permission and what happens in the club stays in the club. Online, anything can be recorded and then your video is potentially lurking on the internet available to whomever. No, thanks.
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@lee.d.32 sometimes I feel like a broken record but have you tried Fetlife? I’m unsure if there are any groups on there that do this kind of thing, but there might be. Probably not on Fetlife directly, but they probably meet elsewhere to get their freak on… and now I’m thinking Teams with a twist 
Good luck, and I hope you both have fun 
Online how though ??
pretty sure there are a few cam websites which have a couples section that you can go onto
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Sounds like a lovely evening
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If you’re really trying to start slow online would be a great start. But as was stated you have to worry about it getting copied and put out there in the world. My recommendation is you don’t show your faces wear a masquerade ball mask, balaclava , cover up any tattoos or birthmarks. I learned that lesson a long time ago although I didn’t care at the time ,we were posting online to be seen. If You guys like it you’re going to really like it and you can progress.
I remember the scene her and I did, I think the first time we were quote “watched”, at a club once where a couple was watching us fuck but her and I were blindfolded . The couple ,mostly the lady the hubby was a little vanilla and shy, gave us instructions. We were to entertain her however she saw fit and if we didn’t do exactly what she said or if we didn’t fuck to her liking, you were punished. Mostly a riding crop, sometimes clamps , humiliation, sometimes CBT etc. everything was consensual and beforehand you picked out your punishments and your rewards. It’s a very fun game. Damn I forgot how hot it was. Do keep us informed. Hope y’all enjoy
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I’ll go a little further than some who have given some good advice. The swinging club scene can be a little intense if you are just looking to dip your toes at first. A club’s not a bad idea, I’d just go in with the hopes of connecting with someone or a couple and being clear in what you guys want to try. I’d aim for a soft swap couple or someone part of a soft swap couple so there’s already some limitations in play.
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Sorry dont know where you are but there is a club in West Bromwich ( near Birmingham ) where we visit , not our scene at all but its a swingers / fetish club with numerous rooms both public and private , the private ones have linkd to numerous TV screens around the club so you will be watched , could be a nice “ soft “ way of working your way into trying it , not sure if i can name the club but it starts wit X and ends in A , i am not tied ( excuse the pun ) to this club in anyway but have always found it friendly and the security take no c@@p off anyone
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We have also had the same thought about having someone watch us and it turns us on ALOT!
We are quite a young couple (early 20s) and so the idea of a swinging club which I’ve heard is mostly older people. This makes us a little hesitant.
We aren’t sure about having someone join in but we just love filming and the thought of people watching. We wouldn’t care if they pleasured themselves to us either.
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In my limited experience It’s not mostly older people (depending on what you consider to be old!), but of course there are some.
My question to you is whether that’s an issue or not, and if so then why? And if you do decide to go check it out then if you’re not feeling the vibe you can leave. No drama.
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This is the exact same feelings of my and I 
I’ve never heard of it
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Just unsure were to start
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