I’ve been with my boyfriend 12 months and he knows about that I like girls aswell
We’re very sexual and open
he’s told me to go try what another women feels like as I’ve never experienced sex with a women
He said he will get a female escort for me but I don’t no
I want it be natural
Help me
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Hi and welcome to the forum.
If you are interested in experiencing sex with another woman, join a hook up site or a dating site that caters for more casual relationships.
Make sure you are open and honest with your potential partner about what you are looking for and what you are offering.
Good luck
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Im from cheshire but I didn’t want go down escorts route but I get they no what there doing and I don’t
Which hook up site are best
You could try local gay bars in your area. You may find a gay / bisexual woman to your fancy, that is willing to experiment with you.
Your partner could even come with you so you’re both feeling comfortable.
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He said this is just for me to try
And experience it without him bieng there
A ffm threesome we will be doing that so can treat I’m aswell lol
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Don’t feel pressured into using an escort just for the sake of it or because your boyfriend wants you to 
Go down the natural route if that’s what you want to do and don’t put any pressure on it
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I didn’t mean to say he could come with you and share the sexual experience, but come with you to the pub/club so that you don’t feel intimidated.
Whatever happens after that is your choice! 
Totally agree. The pressure of making it happen isn’t something we would all be comfortable with.
I know for me the choice of partner has always been really important, I’ve never had sex with someone I didn’t connect with. It doesn’t mean I had to love them, but the connection was important to me.
Not sure i could deal with the transactional aspect of an escort personally. Never tried, wouldn’t know! I’m sure it could be quite exciting too, just not sure that would be for me.
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As @Very-Ape said.
Many things to take into consideration such as, you sleep with a girl you prefer it now you are in a quandary as to what to do with your relationship. These things are normally best explored when single, they can work whilst in a relationship but they can also go very wrong.
Not sure an escort would be my first choice as an offer, that said it’s up to you. Just bear in mind what all the paths are that will open by that experience, and be prepared to walk that path.
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I don’t feel pressured by my fella
I’m glad he’s letting me explore it by myself
I can’t wait but it will need a connection to a girl or it won’t happen
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Just be careful, he may be into it now, as a fantasy but once you sleep with another girl it will change your dynamic.
If you really enjoy it, with the rush of the ‘newness’ he could get jealous.
He may want to join in for a ffm threesome, is that something that you would want?
As always, constant communication is the key.
Play safe, be clear on everyones expectations & don’t get talked into anything you are not totally comfortable doing.
With that said, I hope you enjoy the experiences to come!
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@DanceswithPenguins made a really good point, be prepared for this to raise more questions than it answers It will be a great part of your journey to explore it but just bare that in mind for your partner as well 
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Hi and welcome 
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No lisalips this is only for me at the moment to explore
We might want that in the future who knows
I’ll see what comes
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Just a update went out last night with some friends to Manchester and got talking to a really nice woman she is funny very articulate and hot as hell
Swapped numbers and plan to keep talking and see what happens
I told her not looking for a relationship as I’m with my boyfriend and she’s exactly the same and she wants say single herself and she’s bisexual aswell she slept with 3 women before
I’ll see how it goes hopefully it’s my first time with a woman
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Well I finally did.it with a woman and it was.fanastic it was really sensual and I no now that only another woman knows how to go down on a woman
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Woohoo! I love hearing that people are exploring their sexuality, it’s such a thrill finding out more about yourself!
I’m not sure if this will suit you and your boyfriend or not but swinging websites might be worth a look. Fab swingers is the one that I’m on. You can create an individual profile or a profile as a couple and set out what it is you’re looking for, wether that’s just you and another female or something else. You can chat with people and video chat before meeting, as well as read verifications from other people who have met them in the past so you know what to expect.
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Thanks hunny we will look that’s something we will do together
I’m meeting up with the girl again tomorrow I can’t wait
I got sexywet look dress and stockingsready lol
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