Consistent eyes, hands, and tongue action are always used during our sessions.
My OH noted that he didn’t like the sight of saliva pooling out of my lips during the act. Maybe more swallowing…? Which is something I wouldn’t mind doing honestly.
He has jokingly brought up if I would be ok playing with his ass now that I think about it… Especially since I said that I’m open to the idea. Maybe I’ll ask for his consent & have a deeper discussion before trying it out, thanks! 
Thanks for the encouragement! I agree that everybody is different and have their own preferences especially in the bedroom.
Really great points, I also think it involves practice especially for a skill like this. Those are very good scenarios that haven’t been considered before.
We usually only do two positions for oral, but it’s usually restricted due to being in a cramped space/small room 
Maybe we need to change up the positions, place, and intimate time together for more spontaneity.
Ohh interesting, I’ll try and see if that works next time 
Didn’t know YouTube has that type of advice, something new I learned 
Thanks, I’ll check those videos out too!
Go you! 
I wish it was a breeze with my OH, but he made it sound like a complex physics problem to me haha
He moans without fail, and his hips & feet definitely wiggle during the act. But I’ll make him surrender to pleasure one day, that’s for sure 
Yeah as a couple, we’re both active & physically fit. And I sometimes lose track of time especially if it’s enjoyable haha
My OH checking his watch after the act was done is how we learned how much time has actually passed 
Hmm yeah lips, tongue, and hands are all involved during the bj. I’ve also tried caressing, kissing, and sucking his balls, but he didn’t like it at all. 
Sometimes I feel like my OH prefers a hj over bj haha
He likes how it feels and sounds, but for some reason he doesn’t like how messy the saliva pools out of my lips during the bj.
Yeah I’ve asked for some guidance, but he didn’t have any in mind because he hasn’t ever sucked d before. Thanks! I’ll definitely ask him what I’m doing right that’s for sure
Thanks for your take & mentioning your experience between you and your husband, I really appreciate it! 
For some reason, I love oral foreplay more than penetrative play. I definitely change things up from my hands, lips, tongue, and eye contact from time to time. My OH doesn’t like his balls being fondled with my hands, tongue, lips, or mouth at all. So I have something less to work with 
I like how my OH tastes, but he usually cums over my chest or face haha
I’ve never heard of lingham massage techniques before, I’ll check them out!
Yeah it truly is, but we tend to lose track of time when we’re together.
Thanks for your advice! I do change things up & feel like more practice is needed personally 
As a couple, we’ve built a lot of trust and do get vulnerable emotionally in the bedroom. I love the thought of blowjobs, but maybe my OH doesn’t like it as much as me. From previous encounters, he usually gets super hot and bothered when I give him a handjob more than a blowjob haha
One factor for oral play preference is that only 18% of women can orgasm through penetrative sex alone. For penetrative play, you might try the reverse cowgirl position because is is easy to access the clitoris to stimulate it while riding his penis.
@anna_triche
I’ve been playing with my ass most of my adult life and still find it an amazing feeling
Just externally stimulating him with a finger tip to start with would be an gentle introduction
He probably does this himself when he’s masturbating
A finger wet with saliva is great
Tease it just around the puckered edges of his anus
If he starts to demonstrate he’s enjoying this then great
Another time move on to gentle penetration
If you’re not sure how to do that then it’s probably wise to do some research or maybe experiment with your own anal teasing and penetration
Sit with a small mirror like you would for exploring your vulva and watch what you’re doing and explore your anal area applying different types of touch and teasing around the entrance to your anus
It sounds like you’re doing a great job, 30 minutes is a hell of a long time (you’ve definitely got stamina!)
One day he’ll definitely give in, keep going! 
Work with that! It sounds to me like he has some sort of fantasy from it that he might like thinking about? Ask him to share where his mind is at while you stroke him, I guarantee you’ll both enjoy it. Good luck 
I have not heard of lingham massage before, either, but it is for male stimulation. Besides oral play, you might consider Orgasmic Meditation for you. The book, “Slow Sex” by Nicole Daedone describes the technique. It basically involves the partner, known as the stroker, to sit to the woman’s right side. The stroker then overlaps his legs with the woman to gain good access to the clitoris. With her clitoral hood pulled back, he puts lube on and strokes the left side (the woman’s left) of the clitoris. A time limit of 15 minutes is set for the stroking, and the woman does not necessarily need to orgasm before time is up. Since the method slowly builds to orgasm, the orgasm can be quite intense.
Absolutely no criticism. I would love my partner to give me a 30-minute blowjob. There is nothing, literally nothing, as hot and sensual as getting a blowjob in my opinion. A few things I like that may help - some already mentioned:
Make noises that indicate you’re getting turned on by sucking him - lots of moans of pleasure. My God, that is hot.
As he likes hand jobs so much, try twisting your hand as his cock goes deeper into your mouth and alternate kisses and focusing on the head and frenulum with going deep.
Invite him to take a hold of your hair and take control and push you down - if you’re comfortable with that.
Talk to him and tell him how hot you’re finding it. Ask for permission. Tell him where you want him to finish.
Consider introducing toys that bring you to orgasm at the same time as him - or 69ing. I absolutely love the feeling of getting close to cumming and knowing, hearing, feeling they are too.
Good luck, enjoy! Right, I need to go and take a cold shower now, all that blowjob talk has got me hot and bothered 
@anna_triche you could also try blindfolding him? And maybe play some audio erotica at the same time, this will help take him out of the space to see if it helps him relax into it.
Girl on the Net is a great audio porn site, my wife and I often listen together and get off together to it. I’ve had her blindfolded, spread eagled in bed restraints and then put noise cancelling headphones on her with it playing while I played with her in the way described in the scene, leaving her in a total mess. Maybe this would work for your guy?
(Not sure if I’m allowed to link the site, but if you search online for Girl on the Net it’ll come up)
Checked out Girl On The Net, really enjoyed it. Thanks!
This is the OH. I take his soft penis in my mouth, make him hard with gentle sucking. I play with his foreskin with my lips and tongue. I’m careful to not pull the foreskin back because the head is so sensitive he will cum too soon. When he cums I take just about all of his penis in my mouth and when he’s empty, I push the foreskin back and tongue the pee hole. That makes him squirm! I squeeze his kinda soft penis from the base to the tip and get the last bubble of cum out. I did this a couple days ago. Love it
That is an extremely sexy way to finish. I’d love that 
I have fingered myself a little while sucking his penis and made myself cum! It’s so hot to me.
That is also extremely hot. I can’t think of anything more sexy than cumming in someone’s mouth while they’re also orgasming - either from my tongue or fingers, their own or a toy