I mean, if someone thinks that the act is gross then I get it. I love eating ass, but also see how someone would think it’s gross.
If a person is trying to make someone do it (as with any act) against their will then that’s something different (and far worse) than being disrespectful, and is an issue with the person, rather than the act itself.
So I’m still not sure where the act itself being disrespectful is.
Anyway… still curious and will keep an open mind 
I absolutely love both, depends on my mood. Slow and sloppy blowjob or a quick and lubey handjob … last session was a handjob while she sat half way up my waist so I could watch her ass spread each time she bent forward …. It was heaven
They’re cheap if you buy a 100 pack!
Same as your friend it’s gross hurts jaw and disrespectful to ask.
I LOVE GIVING MY MISS THE TONGUE AND CUMMING IN MY MOUTH 
. . ABSOLUTELY A COMPLETE ULTIMATE TURN ON FOR ME. I way prefer HD over the hand. 69 is even better in my book
. She receives every day and returns every day. I’m in love with this woman and it’s unbelievable the connection and intimacy that can THROW SPARKS WE HAVE… WE ARE IN LOVE AND I HOPE TO MARRY HER SOON
She sounds like fun 
Loved your description 
Love giving my oh a BJ.Giving him lots of eye contact and watching his face contort in pure pleasure.Most of the time I swallow every drop of his cum.
Most of the hand jobs I give will be when I feel naughty like in a changing room, being left in someone else’s house and even placing a blanket over his lap on a flight.
The one he really likes is a foot job , particularly with stockinged feet.Drives him crazy!
Receiving BJ is an easy win
Well I’m giving a bj. I also get to lick and suck on his balls. I love to do that . I’d o am receiving I am getting my ass played with while I am clit is being sucked and licked.
BJ anytime! I agree with Alex4. All that is good stuff. She also rubs my butt hole which helps me cum even more I think