BJ or Hand job

Touch choice.
… done well I’d happily take either. I’d possibly rate a great BJ just ahead of a sensational HJ though.

The v.first BJ my OH gave me is still one of the most amazing sexual experiences I’ve ever had. It was only the 2nd time we’d hooked up. She had her period but still wanted to please me.

… I can still remember how weak my legs felt as I looked down at her, me still in her mouth, come dribbling from her lips … I’m not sure there’s any better feeling than when a mouth stays on you as you rock through a huge orgasm.

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Through your choice? Or he Dosent like BJ?

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I don’t like giving a BJ!! Hubby had a fat knob and after a few seconds my jaw hurts and he can’t bloody resist poking my bloody tonsuls and then I gag.

If its fair, I dont like him eating my vag out either. makes me stressed!

Love wanking him off though. I’m like a wanky alarm clock most days haha

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My choice

100 percent BJ! Love it

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Best is a combination. My partner generally uses coconut oil for extra lubrication which makes the hand job part of it incredible. It’s all in the technique. Alternating between the two blows my mind. And eye contact is important for both.

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I love both and combination.BJ is great but Hand jobs good too as the wife can also talk really dirty whilst doing it which i find a huge turn on

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I’d take a good sucking over a hand job anytime. She masturbates me during foreplay a little.

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That’s a tough one there. I’ve had some women that can make my toes curl with a bj and others doesn’t do much for me at all. Same thing with the hand jobs.

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That’s amazing

BJ for me as I have no foreskin hand jobs are harder to achieve orgasm from a girl

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I prefer giving blow jobs to hand jobs as it is a lot more intimate.

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I always return the favor. But yesterday she wanted to just suck my penis and wouldn’t let me touch her - I just laid on my back and she sucked me off. To me there’s no more trusting feeling than when your wife has your penis in her mouth.

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Mrs W here … ever since I started sexual activity I much prefer sucking off to a hand job … and that includes swallowing or passing between our mouths … in fact, I can’t remember any hand job …

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Yes please​:smiley:

I don’t give hubby BJs either!! Lots of hubbys don’t get BJs. Sore jaw, condom or cum taste and disrespectful.

Hubby gets a wank with a condom on.

Condom for a wank! Are you made of money?! Hehe, I don’t mind him shooting on my boobs, but he wipes it off!

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Can I ask why you think a blowjob is disrespectful?

Not agreeing or disagreeing as of course it’s a matter of opinion, just curious of your perspective.

One of my friends thinks like this - just things it’s gross and so her husband making her do it is insulting.

My other friend would suck knob like a lollypop if she could lol. I’m somewhere in the middle - i don mind it but dont like getting a sore jaw!

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The best orgasm I ever had was from a handjob. I dated a black woman around 2018, and the visual of her hand on my white, untanned cock was too beautiful to hold out. I shot what seemed to be a gallon of cum on her hand.

I’m hot and cold on blowjobs. The best one I ever had was from a transsexual girl at my place in 2020. I didn’t expect it, but I was left seeing stars. Chelsea was simply amazing. The best BJ I ever got from a woman? It’s a tie. I dated a woman who learned about sex by giving men the oral treatment, and Susan made me cum every time she sucked me off. The other one was a coworker I hooked up with right after my divorce. When I heard Kim was having marital troubles of her own, I invited her to my place and licked her shaved pussy for a half-hour or so. To thank me for giving her three orgasms (!) for her first given climax in two years (!!), she sucked my cock for a while and got me off big-time. But when I’m jerking off, the blowjob I think about is the one I got from Chelsea.

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