I’ve been together with the lovely Mrs LurkingNewbie for over 12 years now, and only a couple of years ago by changing couple of things in our routine discovered the joys of blended orgasms (for her), combining clitoral stimulation (which she requires to reach orgasm first) and vaginal penetration, which result in a more intense and longer-lasting orgasm. Sometimes the timing is a bit tricky so we don’t manage it every time (we use condoms), but when we do, she’s glowing for long time afterwards and always gets a good night sleep too. Have bought a LH mini-wand recently so will see if that helps us achieve this more often.
Anyone else made similar discoveries with their partner? Since we discovered this it’s made sex more intense and fulfilling. I’m interested in exploring male equivalent (with prostate stimulation) - she massages my balls and taint though hasn’t gone any further yet. This does make my orgasms more intense afterwards and I do feel pleasant sensation back there though doesn’t quite feel like full blended orgasm.