Welcome to the forum
Plenty of good advice in this thread.
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Thank you everyone for the fantastic advice!!! The thing that sucks is this is a long distance relationship and I won’t see him again for another month atleast. And our weekend together was only for 3 nights so didn’t get a chance to do a lot.
It was my first time having sex, and it was…ok. But not what I thought it would be. I had read romance novels and seen a few porn videos, but with no actual experience (he knew this too) and the real thing was very different than what I had thought it would be. The sex just ended so quickly, and I wanted more. But like so many of you have pointed out, communication is key. We have been discussing our experiences and how to make things better for next time… he is going to do more foreplay and spending time on my body. And for me, I need to get more comfortable with his penis. It should be common sense, but it only clicked when we were having sex that this thing is not simply about him doing everything and I am also a participating member 
I’m late to the party and there is a lot for me to learn but so glad a forum like this exists!! Looking forward to reading through the posts and gaining more insight! Thank you again everyone 
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Hi, make sure you read / watch the blogs from LH they are excellent and i’m sure will be useful. You tried giving him a blow job but as it all happened so quick, did he go down on you and if so did you manage an orgasm before PIV? @user2133
Well that will be you then 
Do you know what, after reading that .. I think you’re going to be ok.
Go and have fun.
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He didn’t go down on me…which I’m hoping he does next time! I really wanted to know what that feels like..He played with my pussy using his hands and I loved the feeling of his hands on me 
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I think he needs to get you to orgasm first in order that you are getting something out of the deed before you either blow him off all the way or with PIV. It will be fun trying out all things and as they say everyday is a school day.
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@Renjen sounds perfect. I love feeling combinationof hands and mouth. I love the attention spent on my balls, not only the shade and Head. Thanks for sharing.
I suspect it’s horses for courses. Guys will probably enjoy different things. Don’t judge expectations by what you watch in porn… Soft, gentle and slow wins the day for me…
30 days and you’re keeping us in suspense .. how have you been getting on?
As a reciever of blow jobs I’ll share what I enjoy. I have never given one though. There are many positions to try and variations as to whom is in control. I recommend have bottle water near by. Keep your mouth wet. Use your drool too. Messy wet blowjobs are the best.
My favorite is when she is kneeling before me, complely nude me standing before her. This gives the man complete control of depth, tempo and where I finish. Her looking up into my eyes, my hands holding her head, ussualy gripping tightly to her hairedited by mod Or just allowing her mouth and tounge to focus solely on the glans/head. Even at this sensual time I tend to at least gently fuck her mouth. During the kneeling position eye contact adds to the excitement. the receiver looking down watching the giver’s, eyes and mouth. The reciever has the options of where to cum, in mouth, deep in throat, or externally on face or breasts, all of which are fulfilling. I’ll admit this position is more advanced and will become uncomfortable for the giver , and for the reciever after a while .
Another of my favorites is both parties in bed, completely nude, reciever laying on his back. This position allows the giver to be more in control. Begin kissing running your hands across his body, occasionally and lightly touching his member. Brush against it (accidentally) as your hands tickle his thighs and balls. To add to build up, lay on top of him, allowing it to brush against your pussy as the two of you kiss, fell his hands carress your back and tush. Allow him to feel your wetness. He’ll want to enter you, make it clear that you want to give him a Blowjob and tell him to wait. rais your your body, then lower your breasts to his mouth.
Then, with his legs spread kneel between them. This allows him an awesome view of your body, yet just out of reach of his hands. Stare into his eyes,edited by mod Take your finger to your pussy, then to his lips. (Talk dirty to him). Dont worry about sonding silly. Say what ever comes to mind. Describe his cock his balls to him. Tell him how horny you are. Lower your head and lick up his precum, while trying to look into his eyes, then kiss him, or lick your lips or his. With you still kneeling, take him into your mouth as he stares at your breasts, he will be watching your mouth too. Take his balls into one hand, (it’s ok to squeeze"Gently"), his shaft in the other. Slow up and down motions with hands and mouth, not too fast or aggressive yet, you dont want him to cum, just yet. Take him out tease his frenulum, ( just below the head) with your tongue or stroke lightly with your fingers tips. Now it’s time for you to get comfortable. With his legs still spread lay down. While holding his cock at the base, him pointing straight up, edited by mod as you lick and suck his balls, again I say gentle with balls. The balls are sensitive but deserve alot of attention too. Take a drink of water, allowing it warm in your mouth or create excessive saliva. Allow this to trickle on his balls, down his Crack. If you are comfortable lick him up. Wet your finger tease his ass, maybe insert a finger or two if he’s open to it. Lubed or wet from saliva will allow pentration.
Raise your mouth to his cock, with up and down motions , he may have hold of your head by now, if your ready to let him cum, edited by mod Or you can raise your body to give yourself the leverage. You decide where he cums. I recommend in your mouth,edited by mod If he cums on his belly that’s ok too. Play in it with your tongue. Or lube up his cock and stroke him with your mouth, or gentle hand.
The next step is when you set off tremendous body twitching, maybe excessive moaning from him. His cock is super sensitive, continue sucking him stroking him. Rub his cum all over his cock and balls. Suck on the frenulum I’ll add that you should have a gentle touch during this, not too abrasive.
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@I_ll_try_anything curious of the deletion.
@user1283 I love cumming from a bj, with a finger in me.
It was just a jokey comment but I’m a little cautious of crossing forum lines. I’ve a talent for getting modded.
I think LH need to avoid the forum and site becoming too explicit to avoid having age verification forced on them, maybe breaking laws in any one of the many countries they’re registered in, and going against the company branding. Its an international forum and multi-national shop rather than an erotic sex blog, and taking it too far will ruin it for all of us and cause damage to the brand.
I thought my comment could be read as encouraging that ( writing for pleasure and titilation - can’t think of a better word right now ) so deleted it. I also thought it was written in a way that had an odd subtext that I didn’t intend or like. Thats most likely my Nd overthinking but I felt happier deleting it.
All that being said, I liked your post. We just need to be a little mindful
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@I_ll_try_anything thank you for taking the time to inform me.
What i wrote, I tried to not be offensive or vulgar, yet still got edited by the mods.
Thank you.
@I_ll_try_anything well said and greatly covered the basics.
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