I really enjoy oral unfortunately I don't receive it much, hopefully we will have more time to enjoy it, I love performing it on her.
I love giving blowjobs so much so that sometimes I even prefer it to sex!! Like others have said everyone had their own preferences so you just have to talk about it, accept it and find other fun things to try. My partner now doesn't give me oral and never has done since we've been together as it's something he doesn't like/want to do but I've never asked him for it as I respect it's not his thing. I wish he did as I miss it but we have fun in other ways! He wasn't in to receiving oral either when we first got together which I found very difficult to deal with as I've always enjoyed giving but now he's much more open to it so im happy about that.
For me it's actually the opposite! When we first met, we were young and I hadn't done it before. I just didn't feel confident to even try!
After about 6 months I finally decided to give it a go, very sheepishly and basically kept asking for guidance Haha!
Long story short almost 15 years later and I am very confident that I know what he likes during oral and now have a few tricks up my sleeve. I really, really like watching him enjoy what I'm doing, and suprising him with a bit of something new here and there, it's a big turn on for me! So he's gone from having none at all to having multiple a week Haha!
My wife has always really enjoyed giving blowjobs, especially first thing, doesn't happen as often now, as we have a little girl, but there is nothing better than going off to work with a big smile on my face, she doesn't swallow it all, but likes to put it back in her mouth afterwards and carry on, just doesn't get any better from my point of view.