Samantha here. Female 38. Body count between 40 and 50.
Around 15 before the age of 21. Mainly friends.
Then a 14 year relationship.
Then another 15 to 20 in a 6 month period that I met on tinder.
Men get applauded for sleeping around but I kept it as low key as I could because its frowned upon for a woman to do it.
Even the ones I met on tinder would tell me they had 3 or 4 girls on the go but would tell me they only wanted me to see them and not the others I was seeing.
They couldnt handle the fact that to me, they were only a cock and balls and I was there to just get what I wanted.
Anyway, it still annoys me haha. I was not always careful but to this day iv never had an std and got tested reguarly.
Settled down now with the best person with all the sex I need.
I am 67 and after a bit of thought I believe my number is somewhere around 14 . However I think I am forgetting several , I can not remember names of four . Oops , 15 , just remembered another . BTW , all women so far .
For me, it’s more curiosity than a competition. I lost my v-card at 24, and at 30 had only been with one person, so I sure ain’t winning any competitions for most people slept with.
It could’ve been a lot more if I had accepted all of the offers; a few I bitterly regret knocking back, while others were a hot mess I wouldn’t have touched with a barge pole. But I’m happy now and, more importantly, I’m STD free which I’m sure would not be the case without those discretionary choices.
Admittedly it does often feel like a competition though @ChubbyKing83 (probably even more when I was younger). I’m in my 30’s now and I’ve only had 2 but my oh is nearly 13 years of that
I’m 37 and 2, one who I’m happily married to and took my virginity, the other was after our FWB broke up for a time and another friend hit on me. Apart from him giving me a spanking i’ve never been able to forget and teaching me loads about space and stars, I can’t say a whole much about that relationship. He left unexpectedlely to go to Ireland and live with his Mum for a while and he expected me to wait for him to come back
Personally - I’m 70. Married for over twenty years until she died fifteen years ago. Total - full sex with 22 women. Current partner married in her seventies. She reckons I’m her fiftieth.. great fun.
I do not think of it as a competition , but more of a how lucky were you . No , not that kind of lucky ! If you were fortunate enough to meet your life partner at the start of your romance - sex partner . On the other hand it was nice to "taste the flavors " . At 68 I still would love to sample a few more . One of my old friends generally treated women not so well and women could not leave him alone . He is the guy that could go to a funeral and go home with a woman . When he was a room mate , multiple times he would have three “dates” a day . At clubs , women that were there with their husbands would want him . Again , multiple times husbands would come over to the table and tell him their wives wanted to f_ck him and wanted to party . They often gave him money to buy them drinks and tell him to have them home in the early morning . I could not hazard a guess as to his total number . As a side note , to the best of my knowledge , he never caught an STD or had a paternity suit .
