What is the most fun bondage items you use? Do you prefer being tied up or your partner being tied? Do you use sex pillows/ wedges? Whats your go to for a long night?
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Personally I have a real kink for blindfolds and gags, as well as a few different restraints. We have never tried a wedge or sex pillow though.
Usually wife likes being tied but last year we had a switch and she occasionally likes to explore her dominant side now, which is fine by me.
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We love the under-the-bed style restraints and recently upgraded to nicer leather cuffs (both wrist and ankle) that are MUCH more comfortable, secure, and sexy.
It’s turning out that I have a strong preference to be the the dom when we play and definitely enjoy strapping my wife down. We’ve done some play with gags and spreader bars, but both seem to inhibit my ability to use her the way I want to. I do enjoy the look of her in a collar, as well as in some good exposing (bare breasted) wet-look teddies/bodies.
It’s been a long while since we were able to play for a long night (parenting, ya know) so even our longest sessions these days are limited to a couple hours if we can get the kids out to play at the neighbors’ or grandparents’ place.
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We like to use ropes, cuffs, ballgag. I think I like to be tied up just a little bit more. I do like to tease her with a vibrator 
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Mrs @Cplnorm loves using our spreader bar and wrist restraints. We are new to bondage but enjoy using the restraints we now have.
She loves being attached to the spreader bar by her ankles with her hands also cuffed to the bar, then having a large girthy dildo placed inside her, whilst sucking my much smaller penis.
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I have the under mattress 4 way restraints, though we only use the wrist restraints. The ankle restraints are restrictive but not in a fun way. They only come out the very odd time.
Then the usual blindfold and ball gag. We’ve recently discovered that using cable ties around my boobs is enjoyable. We tried elastic bands, but they rolled off too easily. Then a mix of nipple/clit pumps, clamps and binder clips.
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We do have rather a lot… restraints, hog ties, straps under the bed are go tos… as well as blindfold, gags, door cuffs. Anything that sets up well for spanking and/or (consensual) forced orgasms.
We also have some spreader bars, liberator shapes and a DIY stockade. Spoilt for choice!!
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Wow, sounds great!!!
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All our bondage items are used by her on me.
We have
Blindfolds
Handcuffs
4 way hogtie
Wrist to thigh restraints
Spreader bar
Thigh to neck restraint
Under bed restraints
Anal hook to slave collar chain.
Humbler
We have some very nice times.
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You certainly have a good life and wife. A beautiful lady and willing to try different idea’s. 
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Definitely me being tied up is my preference. And the best bondage purchase was the four double-ended snap hooks I picked up at the local hardware store for just over a tenner, to attach me to whatever Sexterminatrix pleases (usually the coffee table). 
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All the bondage we have he uses on me;
We have different types of handcuffs he uses on me along with crops, floggers, paddles and whips, and blindfolds.
We’ve also got underbed restraints, harness, collar and lead. Inflatable wedge. Wet looking lingerie too.
We get a lot out of it
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We brought some nipple clamps to try. Do you get used to these on your nips?! Both of us have had quite red nipples after a few minutes, what are we doing wrong?!
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Oh yes, blessed!!! 
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I like both… depending only on what’s feel right in that moment.
I like rough mixed with passion.
Sometimes I like to loose control and give power to my partner, most of the time I’m the one in control.
It’s fun in both case scenario.
Used collars, leash ,restraining bits, spanking tools;) different types of specialise toys. I like pain so much of things to provide that experience was used by her .
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Annoyingly I’ve not got any bondage stuff but if I was in a relationship I’d defo be stocking up on all sorts to try out 
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Depends what type they are.
My advice would be to start with adjustable clamps. The tweezer type are goon as you can adjust the degree of pinch easily.
The lobster type are quite severe and non-adjustable. I can wear them for a couple of hours now but initially I could hardly bear them at all.
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We have bed restraints and recently replaced the wrist cuffs with the 50sog ones and there are so much better. Along with additional cuffs, spreader bar, blindfolds, gags, paddles, floggers, crop, nipple clamps and collar/lead.
Bondage is a big favourite of ours and we share pretty much 50/50 the sub/Dom roles.
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We have some lovely leather wrist and ankle cuffs with chains for securing to the bed a proper leather studded dog coller and a posture collar along with blind folds and paddles too . I love both being tied up and tieing my gf up
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I wish. I wouldn’t mind myself and long term wife doing some bondage on each other but it’s not really her thing but all the posts on here make it sound pretty interesting.
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