Your body your rules. I’d try to get to the bottom of why he’s unhappy and validate his feelings and then explain you’re not replacing him...
I can think of nothing sexier than either thinking about or better still watching my wife play with one of her dildos or vibrators especially when she looks me in the eye with that little smile on her face as she cums.
Watching her big black one slide in and out of her **EDITED BY MOD** pussy is a huge turn on for me and she gets to enjoy herself too so what's the problem?
If she's feeling particularly wicked she makes me lick it and her clean afterwards, bonus!!!
She will often drop me a text while I'm at work to let me know she's having some solo fun so no secrets and certainly no jealousy.
How lucky am I?
I'd say tough, it is up to you what you decide to do, do not be dicatated to.
Agree. If that don't turn him on he ain't got no switches!!! 😂
I dont agree with those saying find a new boyfriend. Talk to him, explain that it isnt a replacement for him and that you will still have the same quantity and quality of sex life. If he still wants you to get rid of it, then you have a choice to make. But talk to eachother first. He might just need some reassurance.
Owl is right, definitely a conversation that needs to happen, comes from a place of insecurity and most likely sees it as a threatOwl1992 wrote:
I dont agree with those saying find a new boyfriend. Talk to him, explain that it isnt a replacement for him and that you will still have the same quantity and quality of sex life. If he still wants you to get rid of it, then you have a choice to make. But talk to eachother first. He might just need some reassurance.