Hi, My boyfriend 4ish inches and insecure about his length I try my best to be supportive of him and make it work with what we have. Any advice from guys who are smaller and how you make it work? What can I as his girlfriend do to make him feel better about his length? What positions should we try? We mostly try Missionary and variations of it. My butt is big so getting past the cheeks is bit of an issue. Any all advice is appreciated. Thank you!
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@Diana -welcome to the club
I appreciate this is a difficult conversation but with sex size is needed
You could try a penis extender - this is a semi rigid cover that fits over the penis and extends the penis to bring much bigger
I have used this in my husband as I wanted more girth over length and they feel very good
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Appreciate the suggestion. I’m kind of trying to make him more confident in his size. I’m afraid if I introduce toys he might feel inadequate. But I will suggest him this and have a word with him. Thank you.
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Try going on top with a pillow under his bum to push him up further and that way theres less room for you to move to thrust and potentially lift up too much. Also spread your bits so theres no bumpers in his way 
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Doggy style might help, or reverse cowgirl to help your stimulation
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@Diana welcome to the forum.
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I will try thanks!
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With doggy it’s difficult getting past my cheeks and he feels bad about it as well. Reverse cowgirl I can’t fully bounce on him it slips out. So its mostly slow movements.
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@DLJL Hello Thank you 
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How about bum in the air resting your chest on the bed … rather than all fours
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I would say that missionary is you friend, which is a classic for a reason! Rather than opening your legs, try keeping them together with him resting on top, which will also lead to increased stimulation against your clitoris as he thrusts, so will hopefully be a win-win for both of you!
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Hi @Diana and welcome to the forum. I am sure the forum will come up with lots of suggestions to try. What missionary but with your legs in front of him on his shoulders. (its probably called something else) this would bend you over more to give him more access. Give it a try and enjoy everything suggested.
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I’m not sure I understand
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Size doesn’t bother me as long as there is foreplay and as long as you know what Ur doing size shouldn’t matter
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Okay thanks!
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Try using pillows under your hips it will make it easier for him and U can even have it under Ur stomach as well
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Thank you! And we do that already! And it does help
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Okay noted! Thanks!
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@Diana as far as rear entry is concerned maybe mix up the positions a little bit if he’s not getting in deep enough with your bum in the way. Try you lying on your side and him kneeling and kinda almost scissoring with you. That can end up with deeper penetration for me and I’m only about 5 inches. Another option could be rear entry with you lying completely flat and him straddling you I think it’s kinda like a soeeed bump thing but he’s up really as far towards your head as he can get with the penetration angle at about 90 degrees to his body and then you’ll both enjoy feeling the different sensations from the penetration angle.
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@Diana
Have you tried a penis pump?
There are some great ones on here. I will try to find the one I have and post a link.
Once you get past the ‘Austin Powers’ taboo on the pumps, I am sure you will find it an amazing asset.
I had an extender and did feel inadequate, but the pump comes with rings to place over the penis and trap the sensation in the shaft.
It’s amazing for adding length and girth.
It made me more confident, and I don’t feel ashamed when using it.
The wife thinks it’s great too.
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