Maybe an extender sleeve might be of use for him?
Thank you for the reply! I never had anal before. He did show interest in doing it but yeah my bums in the way. I am looking into anal. Quite frankly I know very little. So yeah there is that. Would rear entry be easier for him despite his size? If so I will have to look into anal a bit more. May a birthday surprise for him haha.
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I donāt have much knowledge about them. I didnāt know they actually worked wow. I will look into it as well Iād like to learn more thank you for the reply!
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@Diana if youāre responding to my comment then I wasnāt suggesting anal penetration with the speed bump position, but I guess itās a possibility, no just vaginal sex but with the very different angle for rear entry and so penetration feels different for both of you. Itās so difficult to describe the positions. Have a look for the speed bump position in some porn videos. Iām sure youāll come across the type that Iām talking about if you excuse the pun! The guy is sometimes actually in porn on his feet crouched to achieve penetration with the woman lying flat on her face hips kinda raised probably using a pillow or something like that.
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Will check it out Thanks!
Ohh I see
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Will have a look thanks! but sadly some of these donāt turn out the same in practice. Speaking from experience but appreciate the effort.
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@Diana keep experimenting and youāll find the answer sooner than later hopefully but try to keep it fun and not put too much pressure on the poor guy to get deeper maybe if you want some real deep penetration turn the conversation around to using a toy with you Iām sure any guy no matter how well endowed wouldnāt be adverse to that kinda thing
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A cock sleeve might help as suggested by others.
But reassurance that it isnāt an issue is probably more important.
At the size mentioned it is big enough to rub against your clitoris to help you achieve orgasm, sex is about than penetration alone.
I am sure that with the suggestions from this forum, youāll have fun figuring it out.
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Hi Diana, I am probably not much larger than that, on a very good day possibly 5" if Iāve weāve been doing some impact play which helps turn us on more than anything.
So over many years weāve tried doggy, but same as yourselves, can only really get the head in because of her bottom in the way. Have tried pillows, wedges, different sized chairs etc. Oddly enough I can only last up to 30seconds before finishing in that position I as it is really erotic to me, hardly fair to my o/h though as thatās game over for the night 
so we usually try other positions.
Not a huge fan of missionary anymore either as thatās a bit exhausting for me now, not as fit as I once was.
What works best for us and probably been our default for a decade is a spooning position. Theoretically the same as doggy, but it seems to work and I can get all the way in and enjoy it very much.
I know, both of us should go on a dietā¦ 
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Always fun to try them out even if doesnt work ā¦
Make it a day of fun amd learning and after afterwards when your both loved up ask if he would like to try toys too, then go shopping together to see what you both like to try ā¦
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Yeah idk about sleeve. i dont want him thinking he is inadequate. but thanks
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Yes. I know what you mean. My boyfriend has the same issue so he shies away from doing doggy. I try to encourage him by spreading but he just prefers missonary because my butt wont be in the way. He feels very insecure about this and it makes me sad. Weāll try spooning on your name thanks!
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I have a small penis. Erect itās about six inches but flaccid itās quite small.
It was the sense of a lot of insecurity for me, Iām really lucky my wife has no issues with me. She says anything bigger would be painful. She was really supportive when I told her years ago I was embarrassed by the size.
I would just try and reassure him as much as you can. Tell him youāre satisfied by him and the size of a penis isnāt important to a relationship (as long as you so think that!)
Not sure on positions.
Weirdly, and I donāt recommend this, I now really get off on my wife doing small penis humiliation on me!!
I suggest you try oral sex to build up his confidence. Thereās nothing like a good face f**k to make a guy feel good about his dick, no matter what size it is.
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You are not small, you are above average. As of 2015, the average erect human penis is 13.12 cm (5.17 in) long and has a circumference of 11.66 cm (4.59 in). (wikipedia)
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Hi 
My husband would be average but due to weight gain for both of us, a lot of once easily managed positions are now ruled out, similar reasons, my big behind combined with his stomach. Yes we could still manage some but its an effort.
We use a lot of what Craig posted, variations of missonary, I also slip out ontop, but some in the link are very good and it can feel deep.
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Would add my vote for this position. Itās the only one where my OH can get some discomfort by me going too deep, and on a good day Iām only 5.5 inchesā¦
It should also help with the bumpers being out of the way. Use pillows to help with alignment, a sprinkling of sexy underwear and you should be good to go!
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