I do that a lot. Well handjob is out of question so I give him blowjob everytime he asks for one and he enjoys it very much.
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I see. Thank you!
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Yes will do! he loves me in lingerie!
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@Diana . Try side by side , you on your back, him lying on his side. His left leg over your right and your left leg over his left legā¦it will give him more access to thrust and your " butt" as you put it , isnt an obstacle. Kind of Doggy side on
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Hi @Diana
Youāve been given some excellent positions to try. The Lovehoney website has some great advice in its blog area.
This position allows for both clitoral and anal play or if tall enough nipple play at the same time. There are so many positions talked about here itās worth a deeper look to see if thereās anything else you want to try.
Also the Karma Sutra playing cards are fun to play and test out positions if you have a winning hand.
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I see! will try thanks!
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Cool! I thank everyone for being so supportive 
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@Diana off topic but all I can say is that he sounds like a lucky guy to be getting sucked off on demand so to speak lol 
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I am lucky too he is a great guy. And I recieve oral on demand too so itās only fair I return the favour!
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@Diana my wife used to ask me to eat her out omg she was so wet and sticky I couldnāt even breathe sometimes lol I wish she hadnāt gone off oral a couple of years back Iād give anything to get between her labia and lick her pussy and pretty pink anus
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I really like my wife on her side, lower leg straight, upper leg bent up.
I straddle he lower leg, penetrate her itās such a deep penetrationā¦
Itās a lovely position, i can see one side of her butt, one boob, and pound her till i comeā¦
Such a turn on. My favorite cuming position for myself, with me pounding her pussy as hard as i can, it feels quite domineeringā¦ even though she holds all the aces by allowing me to take her like thatā¦
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Oh I see. Will try it out thank you!
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Him standing
You on bed/platform on your back
Legs in the air open
Alternately
Try the Lovehoney Elevate Sex Position Enhancer Wedge
You on your back
Butt up on the wedge
Legs spread
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We already do this and its very effective! Thanks for replying!
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I was gonna addā¦
There are 2 aspects to this. On one side, he might feel insecure, on the other hand he might also fancy using bigger on you.
He might think he isnt able to satisfy you enough.
You might want, on a day he expresses this feeling and if you are comfortable with the idea, to ask him if it would make him feel better for him to use a dildo larger than him on you. Make it plain and clear thatās on him, and that you arent asking for it.
It might be a fantasy for him. Might be one for you too?
I know i would love to use large dildo with my wife, but she isnt keen. 
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Just a thought on this: small has the advantage that you should be able to take his full length in your mouth - something that those of us with longer penises donāt necessarily get to experience (but wish we could).
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I guess the question to me is are you ok with sex or are you missing something with the lack of length. I am a little bigger than 4 1/2. We use toys to give her the length she wants. I always give her oral so she is ready for me to enter for I do not last very long. My wife is always supportive of me. She personally does not like penis extenders, but she loves dildos. I struggle with doggy style for it is hard to always stay in when pumping. I stay away from that one. We try a few positions, but missionary is our main. I would keep trying to imitate sex with him to show you want it and always express you enthusiasm for sex. Compliment him for the fantastic sex.
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He is most likely always going to feel like he is not big enough. There is only so much he can do with what he has and he will think you would have better sex with someone larger than him. I think that after 20 years of marriage, but I know my wife loves me and sex with me. It works even with my inadequacy feelings. The key is you need to be happy with sex with someone small if this is going to work. My wife has had sex with 10 guys. Only two were smaller. One was about the same size. The largest guy was the worst for it hurt too much he was a little bigger than 7. She considers me the best lover. Only the smallest at 3inches was too small for her. Size is not everything with sex.
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We had this talk already he had a breakdown. I want to build his self confidence, using toys might make him feel he cant do it on his own. Thatās why Iām more so looking for ways and postions to work with what he got.
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Thank you for the reply. Iām fine with his size and more importantly he is a great guy. I want him to get pst his insecurities and be fine with his length. Even when I assure him Iām okay with his size he says Iām only saying that to make him feel better. So Iām trying to make the best of what we have. Different postions that are favourable for him etc so he will feel better.
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