A wonderful tasty treat, I’ll abstain from describing them and look forward to @Hannahnim‘s description for you.
But I will say they are delicious if you have a mouthful of warm milk while you suck on those Cookie nipples. Or any nipple. 
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Hello @Kitty-Cat01, lots to unpack on here. Sorry, I’ve written an essay.
I’m so glad you said this. I’m the same. I’ve illuded to it in the past on here, but it seems crazy. I mean, I’ve always been big (F cup, and I was an F very quickly (family trait)), but I’ve grown to an H cup over the years. I spoke to an NHS consultant about this a couple of years ago after their last growth spurt, and from his experience, he says things like this can happen with other changes in health, especially at a systemic level. For example, as I sorted mine out, reduced the systemic issues (in my case gut), improved my stress management etc., they’ve got bigger, and more importantly, they’re more equal in size now. (They were over a full cup size different 15 years ago). My ass cheeks were a slightly different size too, but now they are the same. My husband measured. Where medical fetish play turned into a valid health data source.
Totally get that. Even mine, which have grown are less full at the top. They do swing so much more, and to the men I shag, that means they swing so much better. Boy, do they go, and I’ve come to love it. I tell you, swinging boobs and hanging boobs seem to be absolute kryptonite to men.
I know this has been said, but men aren’t like that. It’s a boob! I know a woman, well over 80, her husband died a couple of years ago. When I asked her one day what she missed the most, she said “him idly playing with her boobs”. She’d been married to him for over 50 years, she always thought it annoying at the time, but she was a good wife, and let him because it made him happy and was a connection between them, but she so so missed it when he was gone. And, to not put too fine a point on it, 80 year old boobs are hardly page three material, but he still loved them anyway, still adored them anyway. I really don’t think that you have anything to worry about your OH. Generalising, but I’m on fairly safe ground. All boobs are sexy to a man, what matters the most to him is that he gets to ogle them and play with them.
There was that survey a while ago, where they showed men pictures of semi-naked women and asked them to pick the one they liked the most. A size 10 curvy woman was picked the most. A slightly older lady with boobs like yours and a mum tum was second. The supermodel was last. What the media portrays men want, what men think is sexy and what men actually want and think is sexy are two different things.
What men do seem to find sexy is confidence. So get on top, ride him hard, get your boobs in his face, make him worship them. Get in front of a mirror in doggy and get him to make them swing. He’ll fucking love it. Guaranteed.
I knew someone who lacked confidence about her body, and what harmed their relationship wasn’t her changed shape, her saggy or hanging boobs, it was that she slowly withdrew his access to them. He didn’t care. She did, and ended up hiding them and not letting him touch them. They did sort it eventually, but she was so ashamed and had all sorts of thoughts about what he felt. I really felt sorry for her, but he loved her, and he loved her boobs, however they went.
Turning to you now, and your worries are understandable, I’ve been there at times, many others have, but you don’t need to worry about a man, you need to work on whats in your head. I don’t know if your OH knows how you feel, but I’ve a few ideas. Firstly, there’s talk to him. Obviously. Your brain probably won’t believe what he says, but it will do you good to hear it, and might see it over time.
Thinking more positively, I was wondering whether you should give him a challenge. Tell him he has seven days to show you how much he loves your boobs. But he has to use your boobs in some way every day. This isn’t about words, it’s about boob-based actions.
Again, more positively, tell him you’re not feeling it with your boobs and suggest you’d be open for him to show how much he loves them. You might even suggest he worships them, and not just once, over and over.
Just a couple of positive ideas that might help. It can take a lot to overcome how you feel, and a lot of us have experience at it, and in some cases still are experiencing it. I’m a firm believer in the best way to prove to your brain that it’s not quite on the mark to have it shown. It’s dead easy for your brain to ignore words, but good long loving actions are harder for it to ignore. I know for a long time that my own brain was my worst enemy, and it has taken a lot to get past that.
Good luck, and we’re here for you. xx
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I’d be stunned if your man is going to be the slightest bit fussed that your boobs are changing. I adore my wife’s, whether it’s as a focus for pleasure during sex or simply cradling one in my palm while lying cuddled up in bed. If your man loves them in his face during sex, he’ll appreciate that no matter what, I reckon.
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It’s very difficult not to loose confidence in your boobs as you get older, as most cannot defy the laws of physics and start sagging. I’m now 52 but can remember in my 20s being able to pass the pencil test and feeling very sexy with my pert boobs. I’m not even going to attempt the pencil test now! Maybe Look on YouTube for some boob exercises as this might help the muscles around them. And perhaps treat yourself to some sexy bras that you feel really confident in. I always find a bit of fake tan helps make them look better. Kinkymira has some great advice above. I also find the feel of swinging boob motion quite a turn on.
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you couldn’t help it could you!?! I bet they’re suddenly having a surge of new female memberships at the gym of yours eh what with the pumping iron pirate causing a rumpus with his very well placed imagination and words 
Anyway, where was I… ahh @steve19 it was Jade Goody who came out with that one years and years and years ago! As I’ve mentioned before, my brain doesn’t work much but it seems to work quite well where boobs are concerned, I think I must be a closet boob lover as I’ve always been a bit obsessed with them. I’ve lost count of the amount of times i’ve looked down to talk to a woman and she hasn’t cottoned on that i’m gawking straight down her boob crack and not at her face!! 
hee hee
My favourite description though is Scania truck wheels, and they are the very bestest nipples of them all 
I seem to be the opposite of @Kitty-Cat01 as I couldn’t wait to grow a pair when I was little to jiggle about. In fact anything that jiggles at all really, is good! 
x
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Thank you everyone for your comments!
@KinkyMira That is one long boob essay! Also very helpful, thank you. Mine grew at a time when I had a big improvement in my disability related chronic fatigue and digestive issues which is interesting given what you experienced too. My OH is boob obsessed. I only have to flash them at him and he’s in the mood! Unfortunately I’m feeling less like flashing them let alone playing with them. I think we probably need to have a good conversation about boobs.
I think I’m feeling down because it’s been so long since I was able to have sex, my pain got too bad to be able to have sex so we do a lot of touching, oral etc but no penetration at the moment. I think I’m getting a bit frustrated with my lack of progress towards being able to have sex which probably isn’t helping the self confidence. He’s very supportive and patient but I’d like to sort this out for him (and for me too!).
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I just checked in and saw your topic , wow ! I am a lover of boobs , except mine . Old man boobs are starting . Im 68 and have lost some muscle mass . I was injured in May and could not ride my motorcycles for four months . The muscle mass has deteriorated , leading to my pecs to reduce . As we age women complain about your vary subject . Men , not so much . However you also do not hear about how " long " our scrotum can get , especially in hot weather . We do notice that gravity does not lengthen our cocks , though we would not mind . Over my several years of enjoying boobs , I have enjoyed them from the time they do not need a bra to when they are lowering considerably . Self love is important . 
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So many good comments here, and so much love and support I hope you feel to be bolstered in your comfort and confidence! If only it were so easy as “Well, just quit worrying! Poof!” I especially loved reading @KinkyMira’s reflection and hope that landed for you.
But since I’m just a dude who loves his wife’s boobs, I’m going to try and draw from this point and hope I can add something to the conversation:
It’s not nearly as simple as this, and there can definitely be baggage in our relationships, but my primary encouragement on this is to believe your OH. Believe how he treats you. Believe him when he shows his enjoyment in delight in your body and experience and time and life together.
Well, I’d love to wax on a little deeper in how to do that, but I think I want to leave it on the more simple side. As a boob lover, I’ve loved my wife’s boobs now for over half her life, and mine! Through all stages of discovery and excitement. Hers were my first and only in-person boobs. I discovered nipples weren’t just round pencil erasers/gumdrops like I’d seen online, and fell in love with the unique topography of her righty and lefty, and her areolae as they puckered and spread and brailled up and smoothed out. I have loved them through chemotherapy and dramatic weight loss. I have loved them through 3 pregnancies, 1 miscarriage, and 2 births. I have loved them through almost 6 years of breastfeeding and leakage and clogged ducts. I have loved unwrapping them from bras in at least 10 different sizes - band and cup. I love them swaying over my head in cowgirl and in the mirror in doggy. I love the way they fall to the side and undulate as I thrust in missionary. Through it all they have been my favorite to love and adore.
I trust your OH feels the same way about you, and I hope you can discover and believe so, too!
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Hey chic as a woman of nearly 40 i hated my boobs untill now they were always small 32 b max. Now in full woman body time they are a 34 c (in some shops d lol) and fit my frame.
We women will always judge our bodies for me after having children i hated my mummy tummy, i cant say i look at it and love it but i am proud of it. Im lucky to have a partner that makes me feel sexy no matter whats in my head. Own your body chic its yours.
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I’ve heard the saying re scania but it was nipples like Scania wheel nuts meaning the size and length of them. Fully understand your desire with breasts, the added advantage for you is that you have your own i believe. @Hannahnim
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I feel for you @Kitty-Cat01 I too am disabled with pain throughout my body and little mobility so understand your frustration. I find physio helps with my mobility.
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34 / 36 C would be my idea breast size for a lady. You should be proud of them @Lloyd_michelle .
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Precisely this!
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This is a bit like me a couple of years ago with my penis, it totally changed its look, instantly I didn’t like it 
But eventually I accepted it and now like the look as it’s a different look lol, just give yourself time to enjoy your new look
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Physio is really helpful. I’ve been doing physio for a few years now and it’s helped a lot with chronic pain and fatigue. Unfortunately the sex related pain is nerve related and although physio can help, the process of trying to improve things is challenging for me mentally.
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@Kitty-Cat01 I saw this post a few days ago and I didn’t forget it! Am I right in assuming you have chronic fatigue/ME? My best friend has this and I’ve seen firsthand how it ruins… you have my sympathies.
also as regards the pain you mentioned, is this a gynaecological pain or just general body pain? Just saying as I’ve had really severe endometriosis since i’ve been 20, and it has made penetration painful for a lot of my adult life which has been a big reason why I’ve spent a lot of it single. And also even though I had the whole lot out, it is STILL there growing in my bowel, rectum and spine, moreso recently and I’m on the waiting list for my sixth operation! But the good old NHS is taking forever… But just wondering if you’ve been checked out for this if it is gynaecological. Also, you have my support for whatever health problem you’re dealing with, because I get it. 
x
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It is nature, age plus gravity.
Natural boobs are great, much better than those beach balls which sit high on a women’s chest and are clearly fake.
Natural looking boobs are fantastic, embrace the look.
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Mrs bustywifes boobs have gone down a size or 2 since shes lost a bit of weight, but they are still beautiful, i have them in my hands and her nipples in my mouth every chance I get. And she loves my cock between them
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Yes, something like that. I’ve had a few different suggested diagnoses, all of them would explain my symptoms but none of them really seem quite right to me. All I know is that there’s nothing seriously wrong and nothing that can be treated, just managed. My general pain is low level, nothing I can’t put up with, just frustrating because I can’t fix it but I consider myself very fortunate to be honest, it could be much worse! Endo was mentioned by a previous GP and it would fit my symptoms, but she said they would just offer me a coil which I wouldn’t want, or the mini pill to stop my periods which I could have anyway. She didn’t think I would cope with the process of getting a diagnosis, it would be too traumatic and I agreed with her. My symptoms weren’t severe enough to see the benefit of a diagnosis. I took the mini pill and stopped my periods which has been helpful (my periods were heavy and painful) but I still have the hip and back pain and can’t have penetrative sex. I have since been told I have pudendal neuralgia and vaginismus. So I’m trying to treat that with pelvic floor physiotherapy but have kind of given up because the process is mentally difficult.
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Going back to boobs, I went bra shopping yesterday and apparently I should be wearing a 32F not a 34DD and trying to squish the bigger boob in a small cup so the smaller one looks better! Apparently you should buy a cup size that fits the bigger size not the smaller one. I guess it makes sense. They did manage to find some styles that didn’t have a noticeable gap on the smaller side which was a relief!
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