Buying lingerie who is it more of a treat for

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I try to buy my wife a new piece of lingerie once a month atleast. We cant decide if this is more of a treat for me as I love seeing her in what we have picked or more of a treat for her as she has something new and sexy :smiling_face_with_horns:

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I think it is Mr that gets the most out of this. Iā€™ve bought for the wife but she was not fussed by what I purchased. I would say it must be a joint decision on what to buy.

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I agree itā€™s more a treat for the male party but still great for the partner

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Well, my wife loves me in a pair of stockings or some lacy knickers, as much as I love to see her wearing lingerie. So itā€™s fair to say we both are equally pleasured.

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My OH is not into wearing lingerie, she finds it a lot of fuss and bother to put on only to take off again :rofl:

Myself, on the other hand, I love to wear lingerie. My OH understands this and gets very turned on when Iā€™m wearing it :heart_eyes:

So the answer to the question is, itā€™s a massive treat for me and a cheeky little treat for herā€‹:wink::heart_eyes:

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Our roles are reversed.

She buys lingerie for me to wear, or helps me choose what to buy for myself.
Since I started cross dressing she also helps me to choose my female clothing.

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Definitely more of a treat for the man. We have different opinions on what the wife looks best in. She likes wearing nice lingerie, but not as much as I like seeing her in it.

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I love seeing my OH in lingerie it is such a turn on, Iā€™d say its a treat for both :wink:

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Oh it is definitely a treat for the man (in a traditional male-female partnership). Not that that is a bad thing, but sheā€™ll need treating to something else.

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I like to think itā€™s a little from column an and a little from column b.

But often when I buy lingerie it is mostly for me, because it makes me feel good about myself, him liking it is just an added bonus.

I think itā€™s beautiful of you to buy it for her. Especially if you do it because of how it makes her feel

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It is a treat for both of us, but I would say when she is wearing it, it tips the balance more in my favour.

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Looks like the wife is right once again. Will ever learn :rofl::rofl:

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Canā€™t wait for me to change and feel comfortable overall. When I look at pictures on the internet, I find women very sexy and attractive wearing lingerie. I have never seen a woman in lingerie, live. Thinking of it makes me already anxious. :grimacing:

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I think it depends on the how the lingerie wearing partner feels. If my husband buys me lingerie, Iā€™d say itā€™s at least as much, if not more, of a treat for me than for him. I love dressing up, it makes me feel more confident and attractive, plus I get the added benefit that heā€™s more excited than usual!

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Oh for both of usā€¦. I prefer to buy my own. My most recent is a red bumless/crotchless red lace knicker with a bow at the back and an open cup bra. Makes me feel sexy as hell and makes my husband want to literally dissolve into me, as he says !!!

I have a few corset all in one type but love straps etc so I get the vibe when u say itā€™s a pain to get into

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I see it as more of a treat for my partner to be honest.

Recently, I tried buying some thigh highs and attaching them to a garter belt but it is difficult to find thigh highs for tall women (at least in my experience). Iā€™m 5ā€™9 and out of the three times Iā€™ve purchased some, they never seem to be tall enough to reach the belt. Maybe one day.

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I think itā€™s definitely for the partner however it must be a nice confidence boost for the person wearing it.

The look of excitement in the partners eyes must be great to see.

Iā€™ve been treated a few times and surprised by lingerie a couple of times and my OH looks amazing, just a shame it doesnā€™t stay on her very long, well if I canā€™t access where I need to :joy::joy:

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Why not equally a treat! As your both getting something very pleasing from it :grin:

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Going to the shops and buying some for my OH, plus its more enjoyable when asking for advice. But ye its definitely a treat :wink:

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Itā€™s kinda 50/50 for us. We both wear lingerie to look and feel good, and to please each other and that can be either through the actual gifting or how it looks on.

I think the only difference is me wearing lingerie is tapping in to a kink so the ā€œtreatā€ of wearing it is slightly different.

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