As we age, my own attitudes to sex as have my wife’s, have changed to become much more Liberal. From enjoying toys , watching porn together, naturism ( although that’s not sexual) and type of sexual activity
What has changed for you as you have got older… . You may still be young but please contribute.
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Those sound really hot!
My wife and I are still quite young (30 & 28) but our sex and attitudes have definitely evolved over the time we have been together.
In terms of our sex, we have gotten much more kinky. She loves to be dominated and I’m exploring the role. We are also interested in exploring role play. She never used to talk dirty and now she can be downright filthy, I love it.
With regards to my views towards sex, I’d say that biggest thing that has changed has been fully embracing my wife’s past. I used to feel insecure but I now get off on her having had experience.
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I get a crick in my neck after any really vigorous activity… 
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As I have got older I have become much more open minded and understanding peoples views/experiences. Love discussing sex with people knowing we will never meet. Makes this forum excellent.
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I’ve definitely become more focused on prioritising intimacy time as I’ve gotten older.
Feeling desired is massively helpful to our every day relationship.
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Me and the Husband have become so much more sexually active since we got older especially the last couple of years.
My husband has always wanted us to use toys but I wouldn’t but now I can’t get enough of them.
We are trying new things all the time just lately and never had such a good time experimenting 
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Wow this is an excellent thread . Being a young 63 I think my ideas on sex has loosened up just a bit , LOL . Education and opening my mind have changed my outlook maybe about 98% . As I learned more and dabbled in what was taboo originally , then learned hands on I like to think I became a much better lover . Early on when I was a body builder and shortly after becoming an Emergency Medical Technician my knowledge base was expanded many times over . An odd to me thing was female coworkers would ask me questions like I was a Gynecologist . Even when I explained that was not what I was . Though I did learn a bit more just to be able to answer their questions . The limiting factor as we get older is how well our bodies work . It is amazing how stiff joints and pain can modify what you can still do . I hope to be functional for years to come , but only time will tell .
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Use plenty of lube, take it slow, and size up gradually. 
Hopefully that will reduce both the tears and the tears. 
(Thanks for enjoying another episode of Ian_Chimp’s Fun With Typos )
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hang in there mate.
I could not agree more…absolutely!!
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My relationships before hubby were very abusive, and if there was sex it wasn’t by choice. So I didn’t enjoy sex, or anything sexual, I didn’t even masturbate. I dreaded anything to do with it, cos I knew what was coming. I thought that’s how it should be.
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When I got with hubby and we first had sex, I knew it was different, he was caring, considerate of me, being very passionate, the way he touched and kissed me. I didn’t repulse him (he knew about my past) he taught me that sex more than just that, and it’s perfectly healthy thing to do, is masturbate. He’s taught me how to express myself, enjoy sex and anything else sexual. To explore all kinds of sexual kink’s and fantasies. And since finding LH our sex life has become even more amazing, and helping me, us to explore more sexual pleasure and the BDSM side of sex. He’s definitely taught me a lot along the way.
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@Dirty-Wife .So good to hear how life in general and sexually has improved. So sad to hear of the abuse you suffered in the past.
If I was abusive just once to my wife, I couldn’t imagine how she could ever look at me in an affectionate or sexual way again… I just hate people who can be so cruel to their partners.
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You have certainly had an exciting past and with your attitude a great future.
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I’ve known hubby since 1996 we went to the same school and college. It was him that got me away from it all, and I just fell in love with him, we’ve been together since 2007.
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We are 70 and 69 and in the last 10 years our sex life has changed exponentially.
The discovery of LH is largery responsible but our attitudes have become far more liberal and experimental culminating in what has now become a female led male chastity sexual relationship with me becoming much more submissive and enjoying more and more mild pain and domination.
My wife has taken over all responsibility for her and my orgasms and she is slowly growing into her more dominant role.
We’re having the best sex of our 48 year relationship.
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That is fantastic… you guys are quite an inspiration!!
We can see quite clearly how much you love and desire each other… such a great outcome.!!
Thank you 
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I’m very interested in knowing what changed for you. @L_amp_M25 ~You say “My husband has always wanted us to use toys but I wouldn’t but now I can’t get enough of the”. This is just like us. I buy things for the wife that never then see the light of day. I bought a womanizer in Oct and I know its never been out of the box. Other toys never appear either.
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