@steve19 it’s strange really as it was when we first went into lockdown and we both got to spend more time with each.
We ended up having some sexual activity in the garden which got me so horny as this was the first time we had done anything like that outside , we had always been very vanilla (which was down to me as husband was always up for anything ) but it was like a button had been pressed inside of me and I went sex mad .
I’m sure it was coming across the LH forum and seeing people talk about sex toys, I mentioned to OH about getting some kind of sex toy and he was up for it straight away.
We placed our first order which was Bondage kit, and the LH Wand and never looked back since .
My wife was very vanilla, probably due to her upbringing.
She now like you enjoyed sex alfresco, sex at the window of a high floor in a hotel and love’s her collection of toys.
She will freely masterbate in front of me and happily watch me, which is such a progression from where we used to be.
Watching porn together is a relatively recent development, which we both find really stimulating, but it has to be a female friendly type.
@Iwill she sounds just like how I am . I have not yet tried sex at a high floor window lol but we are so wanting a night away in a hotel so we can just go mad .
We would also like to go to a bondage hotel but it’s very hard to do these things when you have kids.
I have so many toys now that we need a bigger suitcase and I’m always looking for more stuff to buy, I think I’m getting a bit addicted to buying from LH.
As for Porn I don’t really watch that, I did watch one a while ago with husband and it did get me aroused and we ended up having sex afterwards.
We have recently tried a few new things like him giving me a facial which I really enjoyed and then there is anal sex but that is something to be worked at.
Our Sex life is so much more active now and so passionate and very Kinky unlike a few years ago .
Thank you for the information @L_amp_M25 and @Iwill Its great that both of you have over come things over the last year. I think the upbringing of my wife has a lot to do with it. Sex is for making babies, no babies no sex. I just wish I could get the wife to enjoy sex and for her to want it. I also think our age (both over 60) wife’s menopause which started in her late 30’s and her not willing to take HRT due to health concerns have all played there part. I love the forum but wife not interested which is a shame.
Haven’t tried a facial yet, just on boobs and around neck…??? There is always something to progress to… what made that enjoyable for you if I can ask ?
We haven’t explored anal , just not something either have particularly fancied, but wouldn’t rule it out
We have only done the facial once which was last week, but when I’m horny I always think about him giving me a facial and when we are in that moment and before orgasm it just really turns me. It got me so aroused when i could feel the warm sensation of it all over my face . I also got him to lick it off which was a first for him to have his cum thats not pre cum.
Afterwards I don’t think the same its surprising how your feelings change after orgasm
Good post and as we can only have a limited input as new members. Our love life definitely drifted away and as you rightly say talk talk and talk which we are doing and this has lead us to discovering each other again and looking forward to trying new things and joining this forum.
We both have enjoyed oral sex since our second date so so so many years ago and being on here has reignited that desire! Thank you to all those contributing and the impact it is having on us. We have bought 3 sets of basques with stockings as my hubs loves seeing me wearing them with suspenders and several toys for us both. We have agree that a mutual masturbation time with be set aside using our toys with be next and to use them on each other as well. Also me using one of my toys as I give hubs oral and then a sideways 69 with hubs using a dildo on me to simulate a threesome. We are looking to watch porn again, however, we haven’t got to that as yet and wondering if there’s any female orientated sites to view?
One of the changes we have agreed to is to make more time for ourselves away and to have sex in front of a window at a high level as we used too do when on holiday. I remember one time when…….still that is for another time!
We have been so impressed with this forum and look forward to reading more ideas, tips and hints. Thank you all x
@Dirty-Wife , oh my that is so so awful and the things you went through I can’t imagine and feel so angry on what you have gone through. I so glad you have someone to love and loves you with all the benefits that this has
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With regards to the website, there are restrictions on links you can share on the forum I believe. Just Google Bellissima porn and it will bring up some suggestions.
On a chat you had with @Cupc8kes , sex party. We’d not have the nerve to engage in such an event, but the thought of watching others and being watched having sex, does get us very very aroused. Your experiences sounded so erotic.!!
This is an example of how our attitudes have changed with age… when younger this would have beeb taboo.
@Iwill okay, deep breath, blush and off we go. We where on holiday as mentioned and I knew how much hubs liked me from the rear and I like the thought of being naughty and normally he rises first, ha ha what am I saying . Anyway this particular morning I was awake and made enough noise to wake him and when he opened his eyes he saw me standing by the window looking out, of course completely unaware of him being awake. edited by mod
As for the party you both may try something in the future and certainly for us it was a huge turn on! We will let you know should you wish and the above is acceptable to you and moderators of course.
Mine have changed massively. I’m probably not the only one who has had to unlearn received/long-held religious and cultural notions of sex outside a very narrow window of acceptability being wrong and shameful. I became much more sex-positive during my LTR even though that was a sad saga of mismatched sexuality and much frustration. But that ended and I now feel a new freedom to explore and experiment.
@Iwill we hope you enjoyed our cut down version edited by mod. As for watching or being watched you never know what the future holds for you both. We never thought we would be involved and can, at least for us, say it is amazingly erotic to say the least.
I may not be that old on the better side of my 20s, but I’ve at the very least seen myself go from a complete and utter bottom to a switch that dominates a good 90% of the time. Not sure where that came from.
