Unless it’s massive oversized it’s not a bad way to get familiar with the feeling of being locked before progressing to smaller
Same problem here. However, LH’s steel cage https://www.lovehoney.com.au/bondage/chastity-devices/cock-cages-plugs/p/dominix-deluxe-chastity-cock-cage-3.5-inch/a37791g70012.html I’ve found is the perfect fit. Bear in mind that it has a 45mm base ring, so please do check your measurements BEFORE buying; other than that, I’ve found that the smaller 3.5" length is more comfortable and stops erections being too painful, merely throbbingly uncomfortable. Again, do the measuring first.
Bit of a change last night.
We were having a D/S scene. I was doing naked chores whilst collared and then was ordered to kneel whilst she read with my head down. She then asked “has the cage arrived?” - I’d previously not told her I’d tried it on so I ran upstairs to get it and put it on (even if it is a little big) and then brought the padlock down for her to lock which she did. I was then tied to the chair, blindfolded and had my nipples clamped whilst she went to get changed.
She passed comment about my cock being too small (she knows I love SPH) and then made me pleasure her orally, my cage was leaking all over the place. She then unlocked me and we had missionary sex.
She’s said I ought to be locked today and tomorrow before we go again tomorrow. Going to lock up shortly. She’s at home and has asked I show her when I bring her a cup of tea
If Sexterminatrix is at work, I’m told to send her a pic of “her” freshly groomed and caged cock. It gives her visual satisfaction plus a thrill for me, not knowing for sure if anybody else is looking at the picture with her.
Mine is silicone with five rings. Gone for the largest ring as it feels quite tight (not painful and no issues with blood flow) as it is but finding the cage drooping forwards as a result. Would a smaller ring prevent this?
Update on my caging which is now into the 11th day.It is so right what @rockstar says.The feeling of being caged and owned i find is quite thrilling and addictive.Both my wife and her friend have a key to my cage and the feeling of having two women own me as well as my wife having a key to another mans cage is awesome.Yes,of course i am absolutely craving release but the more i crave it the more delicious the feeling of being controlled and denied release becomes.My wife has never had so many orgasms or been so turned on through the amount of oral and rimming i bestow on her.In my mind her pleasure is even more paramount now than it was before and i love it.Of course the girls are teasing us without mercy even though there have been no new adventures recently hence my lack of posts.We still have twice weekly meet ups and they will sit there opposite us with their skirts up,knickerless and sometimes playing with themselves whilst we watch and get turned on and uncomfortable in our cages.The fit of both cages is good allowing for some enlargement but not too much as well as the cage being secure.They will also talk about what they will do to us when released and be really graphic about it.My wife finds the power and confidence she has gained over the last two weeks is quite something.She has also increased my nipple and breast development through extra pumping,nipple suckers and breast cream during my caging period.I think she is hoping i will ask to be caged for longer to allow this development to continue and the four years @rockstar spoke about now seems quite a big possibility.
I did warn you that it’s addictive.
I’d still be doing it now if health allowed.
It is incredibly addictive,you are so right.I will have to let my wife cage me again for another longer period of chastity on your behalf
13th day now and i am totally into it.The sheer erotic nature of my wife in total command of me sexually is a heady experience indeed.She has told me she orgasmed more times yesterday than any other day she can remember.She loves the fact that she can orgasm whenever she desires whilst i am at her mercy and denied release.She turns herself on to even greater heights as she talks dirty to me whilst i orally service her with her favourite subject being that of having another man sleep with her one night so she can enjoy cock during this time.She tells me that it is me in chastity and that it is my choice so why shouldn’t she have some fresh cock and that way we will both be satisfied.I know she would never really do this but just hearing her talk like this whilst i am caged is so damned sexy.I in turn tell her that she is right and that her happiness is my utmost wish and that yes,she should take another cock to give her what she wants.Hearing this sends her right over the top and her juices seem to pour out.Another 22 days to go,i don’t know whether i’m going to burst,go crazy or what but each and every day i also seem to be getting more addicted.Also i seem to be becoming so much more submissive and want to be controlled more and more.Her friends husband who is also caged is feeling pretty much the same as myself.I can only wonder what will happen when we are allowed freedom…
My OH has a chat with her close friends and they regularly discuss sex lifes etc. we’re discussing bringing them into our chastity games. They can help decide length and punishments etc
I also love the idea of her threatening to show them my tiny pink cage
For example she gets it in the chat ready to send and unles I make her cum in X time she sends it
If I don’t do exactly what she says she will show them me being pegged etc
Such a turn in the thought of being exposed to her close friends
22 days in now.Feeling so much in need of release it is almost unbearable.Wife is over the moon with all the attention along with my total subservience,she now only has to click her fingers for my head to go between her legs.She has also forgotten what housework is as i now do everything whilst dressed in my French Maid uniform.My feminisation is progressing and as a reward for all the orgasms i am giving her she has increased the dosage of my breast development cream and my boobs have visibly grown even more which is making the “Penelope” side of me very happy and content.My sissy side is now pretty much complete and i feel whatever masculinity i had is now shredded and works well with my Penelope side.I am now in my wifes full control.As @rockstar says in a post it is indeed a heady feeling and i love it,on one hand i desperately need sex/release but on the other the longer i go without the longer i wish it to continue.My wifes friend whose husband is also caged feels the same.Two weeks more before us caged males perform oral on each other to earn release from the cages and sexual favours from our wives and i am pretty much ticking off the hours let alone days.
It’s wonderful isn’t it.
I always felt disappointed when she finally let me come.
The orgasm was amazing but the loss of the erotic headspace was such a loss.
@rockstar - my husband says the same thing that he does not want to cum
I allow his release once a month - but I now do it quite clinically- I wank him off in my hand and recently started collecting his cum as he wants me to feed it back to him
@batjamboree Not sure about my OH drinking his own cum but he does lie me wanking him off stopping and then starting again till he is begging me to finish off he then off loads on to my boobs
How is the conditions down there
Ps he would like to visit a sexroom
@AWB1955 - it’s been a funny day - not been out at all - generally I pop out all the time but due to the wind been in the house
Garden is a mess
As for a sex room - big no
Yes beennreally bad up here loads of fencing and trees dpwn.keep.safe
I think.he maay have been teasing me
My wife and I occasionally play with Chastity. I am more into it than she is.
My dream is to be permanently locked and only allowed release after she has been pleasured by another man.
That’s probably never going to happen, but she has promised to role play using accounts of previous sexual experiences. I can’t wait
There is something absolutely deliciously erotic when your head is between your wifes legs whilst you are caged and she is talking dirty.Comments about previous lovers cocks and some perverted things they did whether actual or fantasy is a heady mix indeed.I wish you well and it happens soon for you,i cannot reccomend it enough.Years ago a scenario like this would have made me run a mile.Now i wonder why i had not indulged in this a lot sooner.It really is addictive.
26 days in.9 days to go,225 hours actually,not as i’m counting The feeling to be pegged is huge.The desire to come also but,at the same time a strange feeling is increasingly coming over me to extend the chastity period and set myself a longer record of chastity.Also at the same time my wife is promising to give me the best pegging of my life when uncaged as long as i give her and her friend a good show when i suck the husbands cock.The way i feel at the moment i know they will not be disappointed as part of me is craving this act of servitude for the pleasure of these two women.My head is in so many places at this moment during this time of chastity.I am so glad to be doing this.