@ExcitedCurious as a guy, my first toy was a prostate/p-spot play kit I got from a physical shop, something similar to Prostate training kit. If something you’re interested in trying, could also start with a single toy like this prostate massager. Since then I’ve gotten much more into it, and here’s all my current reviews on Lovehoney products My Reviews. Some of my earlier reviews were probably a bit on the shorter side, and you can also see many other users’ reviews in that thread (if you click show all) to get an idea of good/detailed reviews!
Since this is probably getting off-topic for this thread, we can continue the conversation in your introduction thread, I’ll drop a new post in there!